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I am looking for a submissive or submissives who have a yearning to learn more about this, with someone knowledgeable and genuine. I do not play games, neither do I pretend to be someone I am not.
You will be genuine, willing to learn and in return will receive the respect given in a safe and sane way. My Dominance is real, I do not suffer fools gladly so please only message me if you are interested in real life situations of discipline and sexual submission.

I am more than comfortable in the role of Daddy
1/7/2010 12:25:53 AM
class="code">There should be a ‘Dominant’. Since he (assuming it is a man that is
the dominant, not always true) has the power, he has
responsibilities to the submissive. These include giving her
pleasure, knowing and doing what makes her happy, leading and pushing her to be her best, helping her reach HER goals and dreams, etc . He
does not try to shape her in his own preconceived image of what
she should be, but instead helps her blossom into the complete
and wonderful person that she is. He knows what is her best, what
she wants, what is best for her because they have totally open and
honest communications. The Dom should respect the Sub's advice and
point of view, but the decision is his. This assumes the Dom
makes decision not based on ego or emotions, but logically figures
out what is the best decision. If the Dom does something that
hurts the Sub, she should be able to tell him in an informative
manner, not an attacking manner. The Dom will also tell the Sub
how he feels about her actions in an non attacking manner.
The key for the Dom to understand, is not to focus on what the sub
wants, but to understand what she needs, and help her meet her
needs. He should also try to understand the difference between
what she says and what she means, even when she is being open and
honest, for she will often express what she wants, but it is upto
the dom to figure out and understand what she needs.