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any how i got this email from a good friend of mine about KISSING !
i love LOVE kissing and i thought. this has to go on my profile. its how i have seen kissing all alone. let me know your thoughts if you want to email me ...
Kissing
Women love good kissing. A good kiss sends a shiver right through a woman’s
body and makes her toes curl. Men can often overlook the power of a good kiss
and focus far too much on screwing. Men will practice and experiment with all
kinds of positions and techniques when it comes to thrusting, but sadly they don’t
perfect the art of kissing. Kissing is such an intimate thing that it is not just highly
erotic, but really conveys a depth of feeling that screwing cannot. It’s interesting
to note, that most will do almost anything sexually, but most will not
kiss a client. This is because kissing is far too personal and intimate. Kissing
someone you love is unbelievably beautiful and a huge turn on. Kisses are also
hard to lie with, and women will sense true feelings through kissing. The art of
kissing is almost as important as sexual technique. Good kissing also requires a
slow and gentle start. Lips need to be seduced and approached gently, softly
and teasingly. Dry closed lips, hard smashing and grinding of teeth or fat wet
tongues barging in and choking a person are not appreciated. Cutting off
someone’s air supply or spinning your head like an electric mixer won’t do it
either.
Kissing can start by softly and casually touching your lips to your partner’s neck
when you first cuddle in together, or light, gentle kisses anywhere on the face or
near the ear. Being kissed near the ear, or a soft moist tongue touching an ear, is
a real turn on, but be careful not to breathe too hard. Really, very softly near the
ears, because a big, fat, wet tongue inside the ear is really, really loud. Before
you attempt a mouth-to-mouth kiss, you need to moisten your own lips as dry
lips do not slide and the kiss will lose its fluidity. Kisses can be passionate and deep, but you need to work up to this first and the best gauge is your partner’s response.
Touch
Gently stroking your lover’s body can greatly increase arousal and is also
perceived as caring and loving. Too light a touch can be ticklish and distracting,
and absent-mindedly touching one spot will be annoying or numbing. Too hard
and too fast is just plain clumsy, and when touching the breasts it can be painful.
Kissing and licking nipples is highly arousing for most women, but clamping on
like you’re a deprived breast fed baby is a turn off. Kneading breasts like bread-
making dough is not too good either. In case I need to say it again, it is soft,
gentle and slow as you are still seducing the woman here. Passion and power will
come, and yes, there is a place for hard, fast and intense application, but not in
the initial stages. A woman will beg for more and respond with all she’s got after
you have opened her up.
Seduction and foreplay are about opening her up.
By now, your woman will probably be responding. She may be touching your
body, her breathing may be synchronized with yours and she may have been
responding to your kissing. You may be hearing some soft moans, or gentle
words, her body should be moving in response to your touch. Now, you can
move your hand down, but don’t dive in, lightly run your fingers through pubic
hair or across thighs, and gently move between the thighs. All of this needs to be
fluid - gently ease your fingers between her legs. A very definite sign of
acceptance is if she opens her legs or hopefully they may have opened before
you arrived. As you slide your fingers into her, she should be wet. If she isn’t,
then you have not yet been given any invitation, so keep touching and perhaps go
back and add some additional kissing. If she is wet, then you take the moistness
and slide it up and around the clitoris. Fingers need to slide across or around a
clitoris, they must never press or pinch. You might consider the clitoris to be the
doorbell of the vagina but it is not. This is highly sensitive and responds well to
the softness of a tongue, or a finger that moves very, very softly. In a highly
aroused state, the clitoris will become erect. Keep going back to the vaginal
opening and gathering more moisture and spreading that moisture across and
around the entire area. During this stage, the woman should have been playing
with you and you should now be hard and erect. If oral sex is on the menu, now,
is an ideal time. For many people, oral sex is highly intimate and requires a great
deal of trust, so, once again I stress the importance of empathy, tune-in and pay
attention to your responses. This needs to be performed gently, no teeth or
biting, unless requested.
Now is your entry time and this should also be a smooth transition. Some men
feel compelled to dive in hands free and too often they miss and stab their mate.
You really don’t need to impress a woman with this ability. No woman cares
about your guiding your penis in by feeling your way. Kissing a woman
passionately at this point is a great idea, as it’s exciting to have a tongue enter
your mouth at the same time a penis enters a vagina. It also re-affirms to the
woman that you are still connected to her and haven’t forgotten her, now that
she has let you in. Hard, deep thrusts or gentle teasing, or mini-thrusts are a
matter of choice and responses. The actual lovemaking should be left to your
own body and the responses of your partner. This is the dance, and you will do
well to get your own ideas out of the way and allow your body to tell you what it
wants.
To return to Tantra tradition, you should allow your attention to go to your heart,
and imagine that love is flowing from your heart into your lovers. You imagine or
focus on that love moving down her spine through her vagina, and up through
your penis back into your heart. This is not just extremely connecting, but also
allows sexual energy to rise through your body rather than build exclusively in the
genital areas. Your lover should also be imagining the same cycle of love and
ideally your breathing should be synchronized. Your breath can be in on her out
breath, or you may both breathe in and out in unison. Breathing increases
stamina, synchronizes rhythm, and helps to move energy throughout your body.
Looking into your partner’s eyes for as long as you are comfortable is deeply
connecting and conveys your love. Speaking softly, honestly and lovingly also
increases and maintains your connection.
My Ideal Person: i would love to find a girl that perhaps we may end up being exclusive. to share TOGETHER our desires, what ever they maybe. i get more of a turn on seeing her be taken by another man or another wowmen.
there is a level of trust a girl needs to be at with her partner for her to be able to be a nasty, dirty, naughty, kinky bugger for that to come out in her . a trust and click to know she can be dominated, taken, made to do things that she would not normaly do and in turn turn her on all the more .
for me that's the real meat and potato's of this whole life style game. that deep spiritual click you have with your primary partner once you find them and you can live out, and experience anything together, and know. that when you look into each others eyes in the middle of it all. there is no judgment, no ill feeling, no hurt, no pain, ( WELL OK A LITTLE ) LOL. just acceptance...
i want to find a women that would be open to, DP,MFM, FMF, watching people have sex,watching the girl i trust let herself go with another couple or a guy as she is tied down to a bed as s he experiances all the things i tell her too.
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