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I'll try to summaries what I'm looking for in the first paragraph and then you can decide if you'd like to read further.
I am seeking an intelligent and self-aware woman who knows and accepts her submissive identity as a part of who she is. She must have high expectation of any future Sir both as a man and as her Dom. She will be seeking in a relationship underpinned with honesty intimacy and communication. She must have a desire to be "the best submissive" she can be and will expect her Sir to honour her submission by protecting, mentoring and guiding her experiences.
Friends would describe me as intelligent, motivated, considerate and empathetic. I’m well educated but have learned more from life experiences than from lecture theatres. I love challenges and aspire to follow my dreams and passions.
I'm spiritual, and respectful of diversity. I value honesty and integrity and expect the same in others. I have a relaxed personality and a quiet confidence.
Like everyone, of course, I have preferences but ultimately as in all relationships, it depends upon the dynamics between the Dom and sub. Limits are important and always respected and this is where communication is so important.
I like to extend boundaries and challenge the mind to embrace the paradox of pain and pleasure. Delivering sensations and pleasure to my submissive as she serves is a powerful aphrodisiac.
I like to use beds, chairs, tables, The Cross, benches and the like to restrain my sub while she is teased with fingers or toys. For me sexual submission is so intrinsically linked to Submission and I would think my Sub would have a very healthy libido and know how to please her Sir.
The term role play reminds me too much of theatre sports; entertaining but not authentic! I can promise that I will take you to places of extreme pleasure and sensation but it will be genuine; you and I won't be playing a role but we will have some very memorable times together.
That said I have had some very erotic scenes of submission in the forest on a warm summers evening, have enjoy the "hitchhiker" scenario, the "captive" taken against her will, and even some workplace secretary scenes. There have been occasions when I have introduced a third into play.
Ideally I would like to find The One and have an ongoing relationship which will embrace the other facets of relationships (which I happen to be very good at too). Ideally I want to find my lover, partner and submissive.
There is so much more to tell and so much more to ask about you. Take the next step in the journey
My Ideal Person: Ok, let's start with the most important, you must be Single and emotionally available. You don't have be experienced but you must have a good self-awareness and have an understanding of what you need.
The submissive that I am attracted to is discerning and very selective who she choose to give her submission to. However when she accepts her Dom and offers her submission, she does so totally.
You should be looking for a connection that elusive chemistry outside of the D/s paradigm.
You should finding the prospect of dinners and theatres and weekends away and forest walks and conversation over candles completely consistent with the D/s element of your relationship. But, make no mistake, you the connection with our D/S relationship will be exhilarating and challenging.
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