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| Do you like kitty cats, hot hip hop and making out at the movies or on the couch at the dungeon in front of everybody?
If you do, and you're a single, service-oriented, female submissive who enjoys pain, craves the mind fuck and/or pushing certain social boundaries, is 18 to around 35 or so, feminine, and is either: already, mostly, or has-an -intense desire-to-be of a weight that's proportionate to your height, like i am, and who is looking for a potential one on one real-time love relationship with a female dominant, we may want to meet each other.
Here's my sexmap (you should get u one too):
http://www.humansexmap.com/showmap.php?mapid=map4dd0889d0bc2a2.67769935
I would love to share with you my experience of being aware of your feelings, needs and thoughts: I love negotiating and communicating effectively! In the vanilla lesbian-world I've been negotiating first-time sexual encounters with me with bi-curious (and even hetero-curious) women in the 18 to 30 age range since 1993, so that they were put at ease and had their particular sexual fantasies fulfilled with me, and I'm now putting those negotiating skills to use in the female-female BDSM world with about 3 or 4 submissive females that I’ve recently begun developing personal relationships with whom I met at the Woodshed. I am new to the actual BDSM arts and would love to explore and learn with you especially and even if you have more time in the lifestyle than I do! :)
I have an active imagination and willingness to explore with you in the area of a personal, one-on-one dating or romantic relationship. I'm experienced at foreplay, the art of orgasm-control, and the 'mind-fuck' when it comes to sex, and I'm beginning to explore that BDSM-wise with a couple of those same submissive women that I've begun to bond with personally lately. I DON'T enjoy the mind-fuck if you are not so inclined or have a low self esteem. I am about building and nurturing your self-esteem if you need that. I do have a 'sick side' I'm finding out, which was kind of a shock to me at first, meaning that I have sadistic tendencies but I don't find it necessary to indulge that at all unless you crave pain.
I'm financially responsible with the little I make in life, and I'm a cheerleader and role model for people to overcome obstacles because I have overcome so many in my own life (one particularly tragic, an unsolved murder mystery), one or two which could have led to my own death, and one which has to do with the proportionate height-weight statement in my 2nd paragraph above, which involved a great deal of personal research.
I have an intense desire to emotionally protect, lead and care for the right submissive girl--even 2 submissive girls, for closed 1 on 1 or closed triad eventually, whom I like to introduce to and to see play with others, both male and female, when it pleases U/us.
As a domme I'm really good at knowing and getting to know my own strengths and weaknesses and being honest with you about them. Well, at least some people see these as my weaknesses! I like them or at least try to laugh at them when I can because they are part of me!
So here are a few of them that you should be aware of: 1) I am super shallow about appearance! If i don't feel like i want to reach out and pull you to me and even kiss you at first sight, we might not hit it off. (Don't get me wrong, I DON'T indulge those grabby impulses at first sight.) 2) Impatience. For example, a dislike of waiting on people who have not explained why it is they are making me wait, especially when we have a pre-arranged appointment or agreement. I myself am punctual, at least up until this point in my life. Of course, this issue leads to my impatience and dislike of leaving a mystery a mystery. lol I love to get to the bottom of things. It just eases my mind. So please try to keep me as informed as possible. "NO" is as important as "YES," and so is "I've changed my mind," along with "I need to cancel" or "I want to reschedule." 3)A comprehension disability: when there are a lot of people talking at once to me, I often lose elements of all of them, and will not even comprehend/hear/be aware that i've told them a word backwards or used a similar-sounding word that isn't correct. And yet I'm a writer and a linguist. (I am fluent in two foreign languages.) lol This leads to weakeness number 4): I've been told more than once that I talk a LOT! And I do! Especially when I'm getting to know you and especially if I'm interested in you! What some girls never realized is that I"m keenly observing and learning about them while I'm doing this...those that did realize it....finally reaped the benefits hehe. It's called "negotiation." 5)Even though I'm financially responsible with what I make in my life, I DON'T make much.
If you like what I have to offer despite my "drawbacks," lol, if you have a great relationship with yourself, if you're not addicted to or a recreational user of illegal or even legal drugs, ur a non-smoker, have an instense desire to be healthy fit and content in life, message me here on collarme with no less than three average-sized paragraphs (an average paragraph is about 70 words) if you live within an hour's drive of Orlando, or message me between three and ten average-sized paragraphs if you live outside that area, describing what attracts you to me and why you think we would be a great match. Please ask me for my personal email address if you don't have a clear, current photo showing you from head to toe (preferably dressed instead of involving nudity) showing your face clearly as your main profile pic, so you can send me such a photo within 3 days of me sending u my email address. If you have a fantasy of being hypnotized, message me! If you just have an intense desire to serve in a secretarial or housekeeping capacity with no sexual relationship, message me! I love women who are inquisitive about me! Thank you!
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