Collarspace.com

I'm looking for friends only, but if you're curious about me and what I'm into.... I still consider myself basically inexperienced in this type of lifestyle, but I think I'm starting to understand what I want. I'm not super hardcore or extreme. I'm more into the Dominate and submissive aspect of this type of lifestyle. I don't much like the sadist/masochist aspect that some enjoy. So, if you want a painslut...I'm not anywhere close to the girl you want to talk to. I like to submit...I think, but I don't submit just because someone thinks I should or tries to command me to, but because I like and trust the dom and I need to. I don't like the idea of 24/7 relationships. They sound completely exhausting. I'd much prefer to have a "normal" lifestyle with BDSM elements scattered throughout the week or day. I like to go for walks and talk about tons of different things and I like to read...even write a bit as well.
12/15/2012 1:36:12 PM

A lot of people on this site are complaining about fakes and I must admit I'm curious as to what being a fake actually means. Is it someone who says they're a sub/dom, but in your opinion aren't sub/dom enough? Is it someone who says they're a girl, but really turn out to be a boy? Or is it just someone who refuses to respond to your messages?

I've learned from what little time I've spend on this site that most people have varying definition on what a sub/dom is and what their expectations from these people are. I've learned that...thank goodness...not everyone is into the same sorts of things. So, I must wonder what being fake actually means.

12/12/2012 11:18:26 PM

O.o someone just called me mistress...weird. I don't think I like it. I much prefer being called Trouble. No titles for me.

12/11/2012 5:06:21 PM

So, today I got curious and looked at other submissive girls' profiles. I couldn't help myself. I must admit I'm impressed. Most seemed like they knew exactly what they wanted and required that guys respect them, etc. So, kudos to all you girls who know what you want and are willing to ask for it. Keep doing what you do :)

12/6/2012 8:34:32 PM

So, for the last few days that I've rejoined this site I've felt quite jittery. It's an excited yet oh-what-am-i-doing kinda jittery though that I think I'm becoming kinda fond of. So, hopefully that's a good sign. :)

12/5/2012 1:59:38 PM

This site tells on you! I didn't even notice it until today, but I just investigated what those check marks next to your messages means. It tells you if someone has read your message or not. That's why people get snarky with you sometimes. They know you read their message and didn't respond. Huh, the more you know.

12/4/2012 7:47:26 PM

So, for as much complaining as I've heard going on about the people on this site. I have met some extremely helpful and seemingly very nice people. So, thanks all you guys who've been talking with me and not spamming me with sex messages. And to all those who've had crappy experience with people on this site. There's some good one here too. :D

CurvyCustody
 
 Age: 25
  North Carolina