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Hello and welcome to my profile. I always dread writing in this section so I decided to take a big deep breath and put it all out there Why am I here? I am here to hopefully find a Dominant. I am looking for a monogamous D/s relationship that would also be vanilla. What can I say, I want a man who will take me to dinner and the movies then tie me up to a cross blindfolded when we get home. Who am I? I am a lady, I was raised by a southern and old school father who taught me to expect a man to hold the door for me, be respectful in public and have the ability to speak “ the kings English” what ever that is. I was also raised to act like a lady, people often forget to be treated like one you must also act like on. I am a submissive. Since before I can remember I always got that tingle when I was told what to do. It turns me on and quite frankly dulls my anxiety. I enjoy pleasing, service and making sure my Man is taken care of. Now this doesn’t mean as soon as we meet you order me on my knees, my submission must be earned. I am a brat, I like to laugh, play and will act up to get punished. I do however know when to turn it off and when it’s time to be serious. While it’s fun to get in trouble, there is always a time and place for that. I am a masochist. I enjoy pain and will get off on it. But trust is key here. I need safe words and to know that you will listen to and respect my limits, and know when to push them. I am a baby girl, I am not into age play but I like the Daddy/baby girl dynamic. I like to be cuddled, and feel small and be taken care of. I am a hopeless romantic, often on these kinks site I hesitate to write that. It seems you always hear about sex, play but never love. I want to not only be the submissive of my Dom but I also want to be his friend, lover, partner , cheerleader and confidant. I am a 30 year old female . I work full time, have my own car and share and apt with my roommate who is 100 % aware and fine with me being in the lifestyle. I have no children and am disease free. Physically I am 5’5 and a BBW. Not curvy, not chubby, I am a big girl. While I am actively trying to lose weight it is to be healthy. Who I am looking for? Dominant male with experience. Preferably with in 1 hour driving from me. Age is not a huge concern but would like you between 27 and 47. I figure that’s a nice decent range. As for look I have never had a “type” . I want something long term and hopefully forever so if you look like a model but I can’t stand to be in the room with you for more than 5 minutes, you won’t get very far with me. I go off of energy and over all personality. There needs to be initial attraction but the rest we can build on. I am in no way a gold digger but it would be nice to be with some one who also has a job, car and roof over their head. I want to make memories and need to be realistic with who can do that with me. Please also be looking for a relationship, I can not stress this enough that I want to be with some one who can celebrate a kink milestone and remember vanilla anniversaries. Some one I can bring to cook outs and sit down slowly cause my ass is black and blue. What I want? I want to be Yours. I am not able to post pictures due to my job but I am willing to share if we have a connection. I do expect to be courted and also know this is not just about me. It’s about you and about us as well.
Fierypheonixtear
 
 Age: 34
 San Francisco, California