trishamaddison on Collarspace

9/10/2007 6:44:28 PM

I love people. I mean, even those people that just dont get it and want to make you try and feel stupid like them, just because you dont agree with what thay want or have to say. For example I was messaged by a submissive that wanted to tell me about his submissive fantasies. Now not being truely interested in this guy ( that we will call bill) I politely say " I do not wish to offened you but I would personaly not want to hear about your fantasies" now I could have been wrong, maybe that was very rude of me to state but it was what I said trying to be pleasent and inoffensive. now bill decides to write me back telling me that he is offened by me using people here as "research freaks", and that he was offened that I didnt have approval for the subject matter of my research (which just goes to show how much research he did on that front) and that he was offened by the fact that I am supposedly in the "closet" about how I feel about hte lifestyle. Now I have a number of friends that I have met through this site while I was working on my paper, and I even hang out with them when school permits me to. And a few of my friends asked me about my feeling on me entering the lifestyle and I have told them just as I have told so many others. It isnt for me. I am just not turned on by it. I very well may be strange in that fact but it is how I am and I am comfortable with that. Oh well, this was my little rant I guess. I hope that everyone is having fun and meeting the great people who are on this site and I wish everyone the best.