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House Trinidad welcomes a new slave into the fold for service, training, and good, clean, kinky fun! I couldn't be more excited about My new addition to the stable. |
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It's a sad day in the Household. Tragedy has struck and weighs down our hearts with grief for a flame doused sooner than we ever would have expected. |
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Recovering from a wicked allergy-induced sinus infection sans-antibiotics. Healing is a process, not an event, but so many are programmed for instant fixes, that two weeks later, all I hear is "You're STILL sick?" Yes. Healing takes time, not magic elixirs. |
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Potential male/female slaves must not be allergic to cats, as there are several in the house. you must also not be allergic to telephones. |
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A night of pure unadulterated pleasure was definitely had by all last night who participated in the scene with me during my first time at Paddles. I only have one word for it...OMG. And to the person who's butt is so sore that it will be a painful reminder of last night, you did SO good last night! Way to take it like a man :)
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Sexual frustration is really hard.
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Out with the old, and in with the new. Out. In. Out. In. Out. In.
Have a Happy Fucking New Year E/everyone!
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Of all the days throughout all the year, I had to pick the Friday night before it snowed 23-1/2 inches to travel to the City of Brotherly Love, or as I call it, the City of Entitled Jaywalking. Getting in was the easy part - getting out (as it often is) was the more difficult part. It was definitely an adventure and everything I hoped that trip would be - and then some. Here's to a New Year of adventures :)
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It's that time of year again when I have to make a list and check it twice, and figure out who's been naughty and who's been...oh, who are we kidding...I know you've been naughty! So come kneel by Mrs. Claws' winter boots and prepare to get your bells jingled and your stocking stuffed :) It'll be fun - trust me.
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Do not talk to Me about "others", unless you are referring to the TV show LOST, in which case, do not talk to Me about that until closer to January.
Do not talk to Me about how "scared" you are to talk on the phone. If you can't handle a simple phone call, then you certainly won't be able to handle real time interactions.
Do not talk to Me about "fakes" or "players". We've all had our fair share and since I am neither, you had better not be either.
Do not talk to Me about how "confused" or "guilty" you feel about this lifestyle. Man up and make a decision. This is not rocket science.
Do not talk to Me about how "honest" you are or that you are "just being honest". The last guy who told Me how "honest" he was ended up moving his long-lost girlfriend and her 2 children into his home a few months ago.
This is the bottom line: The only 2 people in our conversation should be you and me and it had better be focused on one of Us more than the other. (I'll give you one guess as to who it should NOT be more about.)
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I'm so grateful for the men in my life who help Me understand. . .men.
My friend: "I'm going thru the motions."
Me: "Why do men do that?"
My friend: "We are afraid. To be vulernable."
Here's to My vulnerable friend who helped Me more than he'll ever possibly know.
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How do you destroy your pain?
In blue and orange pulsing flame.
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"Being a fool for a woman, such as yourself, is always the right thing to do." ~Kill Bill Vol. 2
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"When things happen too fast, nobody can be certain about anything, about anything at all, not even about himself." ~Milan Kundera, Slowness
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I will always love the idea of who you pretended to be. ~Trinidad
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"Don't make me angry, Mr. McGee. You wouldn't like me when I'm angry." ~Bill Bixby as David Banner (The Hulk)
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"This town needs an enema!" ~Jack Nicholson as The Joker
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You never leave someone behind, you take a part of them with you and leave a part of yourself behind. ~Author Unknown
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"What is it you want to know about me?"
If I had a nickel for every time a sub asked that question, and if I took said quantity of nickels to the top of the Empire State Building and began dropping them one at a time as people passed by below, there would only be 5 people left standing in NYC. You do the math.
ix-nay on the ee-may, boys. When I want to know something about you, I'll ask.
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There is no God, Nature sufficeth unto Herself; in no wise hath She need of an author. ~Marquis de Sade
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I have 5 preliminary questions that I ask every submissive. After that, there needs to be a reciprocal exchange between two people. Make sure you read the profile carefully because the ingredients are right there on the label.
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I'm getting ready to move in the next 2 weeks. Do NOT send Me e-mails telling Me how you wish you were helping Me move. Wishing won't lift up the other end of the sofa, now will it? I'll be somewhere between Bethlehem and Philadelphia.
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Power & Force
Power is internal and emanates outward from within, naturally drawing things to itself with little if any effort, much like a moth powerless over the irresistible heat of the bright, warm flame.
Force is external and pulls inward from without, insisting things come to it, much like the gravitational force of a black hole, taking in light and never allowing it to escape.
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Other requirements of Mine:
Age limit requirement: 30-45
Height requirement: 6' tall or taller
No smoking, No Drinking, No Drug Use
Must have excellent personal hygiene
(Good isn't good enough)
There's no weight limit requirement per se, but if you look like you're about to give birth to twins, I can't be attracted to that look.
P.S. Must love sushi.
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I'm here in search of a submissive - I am not looking for friends. I have enough friends as it is already.
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I'm not interested sissies, forced bi or cross-dressers. Whatever floats your boat, but those won't even get Mine untied from the dock. Look elsewhere. There are other Dommes who are into that...may you find her now, but not Me.
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A tip on talking to me...Do not apologize, not even once - simply change the behavior, which I will point out to you. (This is where the thick-skin is needed). Sorry is a such a worthless word, especially when it's so overused and not backed up with action.
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E-mails from Male Dommes or female subs will be deleted unread. I have enough male sub mail to sift through as it is.
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"Change means movement. Movement means friction. Only in the frictionless vacuum of a nonexistent abstract world can movement or change occur without that abrasive friction of conflict." ~Saul Alinsky |
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Many thanks to Red and MSJ for the warm welcome into a wonderful chatroom. I enjoyed one of the most lively and down-to-earth chats with a group of thoughtful, courteous, and fun people. Thanks to A/all mentioned, unmentioned, and honorable mentions. |
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In Memory of My Nephew
(1981~2008)
Now we lay him down to sleep,
Our dearest Charlie we could not keep,
He sadly died before he waked,
We pray to God our grief to slake.
Rest in Peace. You are painfully missed by many who will never, ever stop loving you. |
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And the snow keeps falling. . .there are more flakes on this site than in a nor'easter blizzard. Nothing but pain's in the peter. |
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Re-charged and refreshed. Feels good to be back on track. Ladies, be wary of people who claim to be "realtime" because they are very often totally full of BS. Lies, lies, lies, yeahhhh, they're gonna get you! |
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I'm DEEPLY saddened by the loss of my dear friend. I'm going to miss our conversations that involved more than just the lifestyle. I feel so sad that we will not be able to have anymore of our intellectually challenging, joyfully humorous and spiritually uplifting chats. Although you're physically gone, you will always be in My heart and I will never forget the impact YOU had on My life. You were truly a delight to this sadist. I'm sorry for the loss your friends and family must be feeling as well. May you rest in peace nels. I will always remember you. |
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Not all of them are babies. I've met a few wonderfully polite and submissive men here so far who give Me hope that there are truly genuine submissive men in this area. They know who they are. Thank you boys for the wonderful warm welcome back.
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I just moved 1,000 miles and have only been town for one week. If a submissive can't be patient with a PERSON in that kind of a situation without making it all about HIM, then that is not the submissive for Me.
If you choose to assume anything about Me, you will be left with those assumptions.
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The move has been made. I'm back on the East Coast.
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