Update: What a joke. Started talking with no less than six "Doms" who one-by-one flaked or turned out to really be married or turned out to live in another state or were really 5'8" instead of 6'2" like they show in their profile.

We are a couple in our 50s and have been together for 12 years. Soon after we first got together we attended a few couples parties and playing with a few single men and a few couples, but have not done anything with other people in quite some time. We finally have the house to ourselves and would like to enjoy our privacy by making friends with a single Dom for friendship that leads to him and her being Dom/sub lovers. Ideally we'd like to find a guy whom we could be friends with and get together for dinner, movies, BBQs, bowling, pool, weekend events, day hikes, weekend trips, etc. We are really looking for someone who is not overly sexually active with other people, since safety is a big concern for us.

I have been hooked on seeing her with other men from the first time I saw her kiss another man. I have enjoyed seeing her with one, two and three men at a time and with black guys too. I know you’d find her sexy and I’d love to watch her enjoy herself with another man again. Do us a favor though and don’t sent pictures of your cocks.

We met though our mutual interest in bdsm and because she is in-charge at her job, she loves the submissive role. She enjoys pain (nipple pinching to start) and humiliation play.

She is 53, 5’8” and average build, shoulder-length blonde hair (that she loves to have played with) , pretty blue eyes and is very friendly and outgoing with a great sense of humor. I 55, am 6’4” and 250lbs, balding with a trimmed bread, a deep voice and gray eyes. We are both degreed and work in management positions. We are interested in meeting other people like us who are non-smokers, light drinkers, non-drug users (this includes weed), clean, healthy, happy people. We’d like to be able to get together and not have every time end with intimacy (swapping or watching). We live in the east bay, near the 580/680 interchange.