I am a 44 year old experienced highly educated dominant man. Professionally very active and financially very secure. I travel a lot mostly between Paris, Dublin and New York. I have always loved and practiced the bdsm lifestyle. It saddens me to see how much most people think that it is only about sex whereas sex is only a small part of a whole and complete way of life based on trust, true respect and deep emotional relationship between the two partners. Unfortunately, many profiles found on the various sites give a very negative image of what could be a beautiful lifestyle. What I am really looking for is a female submissive willing beginner or not willing to discover and experience the lifestyle with me. My interests include all sorts of soft domination including petplay. I am NOT into hard core violence so if your interest lies in needle play, violence or any other hardcore stuff, please stay away. On the other hand, if you are interested in becoming a true submissive, a real pet being cared for and discover the lifestyle progressively, please make contact so that we can get to know each other.