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I have been involved in the lifestyle for going on four years. I have been without a submissive for a couple years, but have been able to play with several off and on while not in a relationship. The lifestyle is not a joke to me and something that I yearn for, though I do know that it will take time and huge trust to establish the type of relationship that I am looking for. I have had two submissives in the past, one who tried to call herself a third, but I did not view her as such.
I'm not looking for one-time play-dates, or something casual. I'm looking for something that has the potential to last.
About myself and kink:
I'm a fairly easy going guy in general, and am not much for rules. I've only ever had a handful of rules that I like to enforce, and will tailor rules to each sub individually as needed. I describe myself as primal - I like to go on instinct during play. My hands tend to be some of my favorite tools to use, as the sting of play will cause me to feel alive. I do like to use toys too after we're warmed up - especially if I'm no longer getting the reactions I seek.
I have sadistic tendencies, but not from a want to cause pain, but the reactions caused by pain. I'm not big on restraints... I like my prey to be able to fight back – or surrender themselves completely on their own. But on the occasions that I do like to use restraints I have a set of under the bed restraints, and I also like to use duct tape. I also have experience in wax-play, sensory deprivation, pet-play, and have dabbled with a few other kinks.
In the future I want to try blood play and rape/abduction play, though those are in the far future after a lot of negotiations and trust has been built. It is the willingness to experiment with these rougher types of play that I am truly seeking kink-wise in a relationship. I'm also curious to get to the level of trust to have a 24/7 total power exchange dynamic, with consented nonconsent - basically where my word is law.
Outside of kink:
I'm an unashamed nerd/dork/geek, whichever word you feels describes me best, they all fit, though I prefer the moniker of bad-ass nerd. I have a passion for the sciences, especially those which involve outer space and it's exploration. I try to keep up to date with recent discoveries. I'm a gamer, science fiction and horror enthusiast, atheist. I have a full-time job, car, my own place, etc.
About you:
Non religious, or at least not very. Willingness to explore heavy and darker play on occasion. Other than that I'm not very picky... There has to be some physical attraction, and some mutual interests, but I like someone who has different interests that are complimentary to mine. An artistic streak would be nice, as I have none, with the exception of a bit of musical talent.
With-in a couple hours driving for me (unless you're willing to do all the driving to and from my place)
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