I was on here about a year ago and I’m back.
A little about me:
My personality is about the opposite of what most people think of when they think of a Dominant. I’m pretty laid-back, quiet, and easy-going (closer to a type “B” personality). I’m not the type that will say “on your knees” on first contact. If it won’t work in a bar; it won’t work here, either. But first impressions can be deceiving. I’m highly competitive (I hate losing at anything) and can be very intense at times. Once I sink my teeth into something (or someone :-) ), I tend not to let go.
I have the three E’s covered:
Employed (software engineer)
Educated (masters degree- go figure, I’m a Dom)
Emotionally stable
I’m single (divorced) and not currently dating anyone.
I have a wide array of interest: brewing, sports, flying, and woodworking (comes in handy for building toys and equipment) to name a few.
I exercise regularly and play soccer during the week. I’m in pretty good shape for my age.
Here is what I’m looking for, in no particular order.
A woman that:
Wants a long term relationship
Is my age or younger
Wants/likes rules
Wants to be trained
Likes role play
Has a masochistic streak
Wants a family
Likes to wear high heels, corsets, lingerie
Can fit in with a vanilla crowd
Has an attraction to me and vice versa (in other words: chemistry needs to exist between us)
Is an exhibitionist
Is adventurous
Is intelligent, has a sense of humor, and can hold a conversation
Has nice legs (I’m a leg man)
Here is a short list of what I’m NOT looking for:
A doormat
A switch (nothing against switches, I just have no desire to submit)
A poly situation - one is enough
Yes, these are specific lists. But I know me and I know what I want.
Do you have to meet everything on the first list? No, but only having one isn’t going to cut it either. If you meet most of these, I look forward to hearing from you.