Do you want him to take control and be in charge. Give you rules and expectations to live by, and know that he'll discipline you when you deserve it.
A slave who is in service to a Master is an extension of the Master and strives to obey the Master’s will in all things. A slave who is in training temporarily puts herself under the direction of a Master's will and that of any other Masters designated to work with that slave trainee. A slave asks questions of a Master in order to understand the Master’s intentions regarding his service. Every question a slave asks regarding his Master’s intention becomes an order once the Master answers. The same holds, within limits as indicated below, for the Masters entrusted with the slave's instructional duties....
One must know the direction they wish to go to get there.
Saying you are a slave is a falsehood. You may feel you are submissive but is that true.
One becomes a slave. One is not born a slave.
There are things a slave will be expected to do that will not always be fun to do.
Or even very exciting like the BDSM/Master/slave fantasy stories suggest.
One must be taught to become something that is much different than they are.
It is true that once one begins the proper training they will become that which they are being trained to be.
Some things the slave will be trained to do will be boring. Not a lot of fun and not much of a turn on.
This is the problem. There are those who have read stories that take them to a place inside that makes them feel.
Make them feel something they have never felt before. Does it mean they are really slave material. Or does it mean that suddenly their role playing button has been pushed.
Nothing at all wrong with role play. Maybe you would like your BF/SO to spank you or do others things in the bedroom you have read about.Go for it have fun your imagination is the limit.
However that is not slavery. It is role playing.
Very few understand the concept.
Some will submit move across the country only to find that it is not what they thought it would be or what they really wanted.
That is truly sad and tragic.
Because then you have a submissive that was looking for a pie in the sky romance of bdsm/D/s to find that reality is something altogether different.
Train as in training can mean different things to different people.
I have trained before. This means I have sat down and got to know people. From those talks I have learned what they truly are and what they are really seeking. What they really want to do/be/become.
From couples where the husband wanted to be cuckold and submissive to his wife.To couples where the wife/SO wanted him to be more dominant and take control of her and their life. To couples where the wife/GF wanted to be submissive to her husband and also wanted him to cuckold her. (which is called a cuckquean / female cuckold)
Others who just wanted to know safe ways to enjoy the kinky things they wanted to try.
Most just need someone to talk to. Nothing more. Someone that understands what they are feeling and to help them with why they desire the things they do.
12/22/2012 8:39:35 PM
rules protocol and structure.
The Dominant or as some will call him Master/Dom/Daddy assumes all responsibility for her actions and well being.
