I am primarily here to find and build upon the sensual and erotic lifestyle of a 24/7 M/s relationship, one of the most challenging aspects of the D/s lifestyles for both Master and slave. I am poly but will only train one slave at a time adding others when appropriate unless they come to me as a pair to begin with. My Dominant style is paternal in nature; directly derived from my family and military heritage. I am challenging and demanding always; praising and rewarding when earned; forceful and demeaning or reassuring and nurturing when needed.

I have a deep love for rope bondage. It is as much an art form in my eyes as it is a tool of submission. The rope frames and highlights the human body is such a complimentary fashion while creating a sense of desirability and vulnerability in the bottom. There are few sights as trusting and beautiful as a suspended slave. I am particularly drawn to shibari where form is given equal billing with function.

My other interests in BDSM are widely varied and include impact play (florentine flogging, sensual spanking, caning, and paddling), erotic hypnosis (cumming on command, linking erogenous zones with other parts of the body, or mind over matter bondage), medieval bondage (chains or irons, fiddles, or other medieval devices), role playing, candle wax and fire play, electrical play, and many others. I particularly enjoy situational scenes that come down to a really good mind fuck. I am always coming up with new things that will benefit a slave’s submission, vulnerability, and sense of self worth.

I posses a thoughtfulness and patience that often gets me mistaken for an older man despite only having the occasional grey highlight. Being a large man both tall and broad (6’3” and over 300lbs) I am often unintentionally intimidating as well. I am often sought out for what a friend once called “big guy energy” or what a slave once described as “having a heart of coal and no soul”.

I am drawn to the sensual and erotic but I crave the intense synergistic energy and connection from D/s and the commitment of ownership and Mastery.