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TrainerC

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Friends:
sosniagara
This profile is an update that reflects the name I'm becoming more recognized as in the leather community. Some people call me C, some of my friends call me Trainer, but if I am not in a relationship with you, I expect you to call me C, and if you really feel like using an honorific, use "Sir."

Relationships:

I would love to find people who are local to me, who are heavy bottoms, unmarried, and have time to spend getting to know me and playing in public/private parties, and in private.

If things click with us, and you are interested in a more committed relationship based on training and service, we can discuss a training collar. But I will NOT give this kind of collar unless I am pretty sure that you're ready for it, and it won't happen any time soon.

After that, if things work out, it's possible that we could enter into a contractual M/s relationship.

Since I am having no luck finding play partners locally, I am willing to travel. I am NOT a pro domme, and I do NOT demand "tribute," but if I travel to meet you, you will pay for at least half of the expenses.
That said, if you are in Turkey, India, etc, don't send me mails saying you want to be my slave. That just isn't realistic.

Some facts about me, in no particular order:

I've been playing, training, and owning people ACTIVELY, for about 11 years. There was some kinkiness before then, and I've always been domininant in my relationships, but I found the terms, and some semblance of community and education in 90, and have learned a lot since then. I still consider myself to be a novice, however, because I compare my skills and reputation to people I consider my mentors, who have a lot more experience and insight than I do.

I am polyamorous. I always have been, and I always will be. This does not mean I'm promiscuous. What it means is that I am capable of loving and being committed to more than one partner at a time. It means that, no, you will not be my one and only. It means that you would be one of several people I care about and am in a serious relationship with.

I expect service. I expect bottoms I am involved with in any way to enjoy providing service, even if this means simply serving as a whipping boy.

I am a female-to-male crossdresser. As you can see in my pics, I do not pass as a male. But I'll just let you know right now that I NEVER wear heels, corsets, or stockings.

My main kink is training. I love to find potential, set reasonable goals, and work towards tangible progress.

I'm a sadist. I'm not a sensual sadist, using the definition that many people use online. If you're new, and not a pain slut, that doesn't mean I'm going to immediately start beating the fuck out of you. However, you WILL suffer for my pleasure. I will respect all limits.

I drink, I smoke, and I swear. (:

Some of my interests that are not on the list are: kicking, punching, face slapping, biting, humiliation.

As serious as this profile might sound, I'm really quite laid back. I love to laugh and create fun atmospheres.

And, yes. My favorite color is green. (:
11/11/2006 11:46:43 PM
I'm in Detroit right now.  Anyone wanna hang out?  (:
1/23/2006 2:16:39 PM
Travelling a lot soon. I'll be in Dallas for SPLF, later in Atlanta, eventually in California (bay area, for Dore Alley), etc. 
11/4/2005 1:39:54 PM
Getting a lot of mail these days, so I guess I should just tell you that, unless your letter or profile is particularly appealing, I'm not likely to answer.  No, I won't tell you what I mean by "particularly appealing."  There's not enough time.  (:
9/22/2005 10:45:07 PM
I'm living part of the time in Nashville, TN, and part of the time in Biloxi.  I've been travellling a lot to private parties and leather events.  I don't check this site very often, but be patient, and I will get to your emails eventually.  (:
4/13/2005 3:44:37 AM
If you're going to South East Leather Fest, and want to meet for a coke or something, let me know.
CuriousShush
 
 Age: 18
 Chicago Burbs, Illinois