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Discipline is not punishment
Discipline is remembering what you want. ~ David Campbell, founder, Saks Fifth Avenue
Punishment is not discipline
Punishment is now unfashionable... because it creates moral distinctions among men, which, to the democratic mind, are odious. We prefer a meaningless collective guilt to a meaningful individual responsibility. ~ Thomas S. Szasz
Both are essential for a long healthy relationship.
Often we come to points in our relationships where action should be taken and are not. Reminders are not put in place and responsibility for them ignored either through what we mistake for love... or weariness.
I offer structured reminders for discipline and agreed upon punishments for those who fit in the above paragraph.
It is no shame to reach that point in a relationship where another set of hands are called for. Or a distinct friendly voice said what needs to be said.
I have often naturally been that person in my life who's objectivity and willingness to listen and advise has helped others, especially in D/s circles. I enjoy what i do and who I am and can be for others.
Limits discussed and crafted
If I can help in this fashion drop me a line.
T
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