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Hetero Male Dominant, 51,  Essex, United Kingdom
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Single tall and solvent dominant in essex seeks a smiling cuddly tactile submissive who needs correction, affection and spoiling. Im not a Master, but very much a dominant and being increasingly drawn to a Daddy little or taken in hand style relationship.

And talking of drawing I love to draw and paint. So a lady who would enjoy posing (or even being chained!) as my model, my muse, would just be ideal! And yes the profile drawings are examples of my work.











 Dominant Male


 United Kingdom

 6' 2"






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Women



 Breast Play



 Intellectual Discourse


 Art Galleries

 Fine Dining




 Anal Play



 Canes and Crops


 Hair Pulling


 Card Games







 Curious About:


 Electrical Play

 Outdoor Bondage


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Journal Entries:
7/8/2013 3:00:16 AM

I don't mean to be part of the grammar police, and goodness knows I do try to see beyond the punctuation but then I read this: "is there any Dom's out there .." (sic).

At least it was there not their or they're. 

So I guess that confirms it.  Intelligence matters more to me than looks.

6/9/2013 2:38:38 PM
Really sorry to hear about Ian Banks tonight. I have enjoyed his books and they will always be his memorial.

5/12/2012 5:16:49 PM


I have been finally forced into print.  I am not a Dominate, I am a Dominant.  I will never be a Dominate with or without a capital letter.  Dominate is a verb and I will always be a noun.  There, that is off my chest.  Thank you for reading.

2/26/2012 1:40:16 AM

I have been reading more about the Daddy Dom/princess relationship.  I think whatever the relationship label a Dom should always care for his girl.  Perhaps this type of relationship just emphasises that.   Whatever relationship I was in I would still want her over my knee regularly lol!

2/12/2012 4:16:13 PM

Todays question: Does offering one's partner a foot rub make one a sub or just a caring Dom?

10/13/2011 4:37:47 PM

A very long day which has made me consider seriously that for which I am looking.   I believe that Ds is an extension to a relationship, that it is something more, rather than something different.  It takes intimacy, of all sorts to a deeper, more complete plane;  that includes emotional, physical and sexual intimacy.   I know not everyone agrees, but this is how I feel about the lifestyle.



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