I don't mean to be part of the grammar police, and goodness knows I do try to see beyond the punctuation but then I read this: "is there any Dom's out there .." (sic).

At least it was there not their or they're. 

So I guess that confirms it.  Intelligence matters more to me than looks.

I have been finally forced into print.  I am not a Dominate, I am a Dominant.  I will never be a Dominate with or without a capital letter.  Dominate is a verb and I will always be a noun.  There, that is off my chest.  Thank you for reading.

I have been reading more about the Daddy Dom/princess relationship.  I think whatever the relationship label a Dom should always care for his girl.  Perhaps this type of relationship just emphasises that.   Whatever relationship I was in I would still want her over my knee regularly lol!

Todays question: Does offering one's partner a foot rub make one a sub or just a caring Dom?

A very long day which has made me consider seriously that for which I am looking.   I believe that Ds is an extension to a relationship, that it is something more, rather than something different.  It takes intimacy, of all sorts to a deeper, more complete plane;  that includes emotional, physical and sexual intimacy.   I know not everyone agrees, but this is how I feel about the lifestyle.