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	MistressRubySofi

In all things first off I do choose my limits. Yet, boundaries are not always set in stone. The actual stone of my being is chiseled as the development & growth within are evolved in each new experience. This has finalized more of late.. I learned a valuable lesson recently. The road on which others may even be taken into consideration has been narrowed significantly. This is a noted change & I am glad to see it in myself. If you ask me to do you unrelated favors for 'play time' for example, I will only consider them once I have seen proper form & compliance to service on my terms, no compromise. This means discussion & rule set upon hard limits are not a flop issue. They must be agreed upon anything done beyond casual interactions. I believed I was a courteous man once, I cannot continue that to the point where I attempt kindness just to suit everyone but me. If I won't give you a free ride on a continuous whim, guess what, gas, grass or ass, I earned what I have, so should you. Also, an addition, if you cannot understand that I am not closed off by either poly, mono or swinger lifestyles yet am very discretion fueled of anyone I would take seriously, look around & get over yourself. People never realize, just because someone flirts doesn't mean they are interested, there is always someone else in this sea of humans. A question I think people should ask themselves.. Why is life taken so seriously? It isn't even permanent. I still listen to other ideas as ever but I will not waste time on anyone who cannot hold their own weight. Simple things like friendships are more important to the scene than many realize. I seek out that more than any possible 'scene' or partner. Fun memories come & go, but real friends & play or fuck friends are a rarer thing & I am happy for those who are all in these parts of it. I do not have time to banter endlessly online, but I will stay in touch with those who are willing to open up to it when I am impressed. I do not hide within lies, I despise that aspect of humanity & the applications of it to gain & take from myself & my time. So, if this is who you are don't bother. However, I don't only believe in simple design, singular finality, or harshly judging from a first or later encounter. I do embrace honesty with my entire being & it is important to do so with everyone I come into contact with. This, honor & respect all walk hand in hand with me until you show me a reason to change this perception of what you deserve. Trust on the other hand must be built, & it can be harder to keep it with me once I have seen signs that it isn't well deserved. Another thing about me is I can be quite introverted at times when in deep contemplative thought or focusing on my own life goals beyond the social world. This is my life, it will always be who I am & those who come into it understand this who have taken the time to embrace it throughout my life in experiences. I have high expectations of all in it & as long as I see the building of purpose & development, those within can & will at the very least be able to gain or hold a spot within my concept of friends. Although, I won't keep others close if they do not show me high capabilities to improve. As I myself will never give up, I will not slow down just for you. Everyday I learn that no matter what I have conquered & gain knowledge from in every single thing around me there will always be more. There is always plenty you might just earn from me to openly share, do not be so shy as to not ask.

8/31/2009 2:02:30 PM Well, it's been an interesting life, keeping most things to myself but will be vacationing quite soon and it will be in the Oregon, Washington area.  looking for fun & new experiences once I arrive, Keep in touch everyone. ;)