It may seem contradictory but there is such a thing as a strong, demanding and strict yet warm, loving and caring dominant man: Me.

While play partners are fun, I want to meet a submissive woman who has a strong sense of herself yet knows she needs to submit to the control of the man or daddy in her life, and is ready for a serious, committed, long-term relationship.

She keeps her mind, body, spirit and outlook in great condition, enjoys exploring things in the world (and not just in the world of D/s) and will fit in well in any situation. So, she’s smart – which isn’t always the same thing as educated; I’ve known lots of well-educated people who are pretty dumb – fit, interesting in her own right, stylish, and confident in herself and her sexuality.

You’re probably somewhere between your late-20s and late 40s, employed, single or divorced and not attached or married, and either live near Toronto or are prepared to move here if things work out between us. You’ll live an interesting, fulfilling life, never be mistreated or abused (even though sometimes, some things will hurt), and loved and cherished but always know your place.

I am very experienced having been Dominant for some 20 years. I've had several long-term relationships - as in more than two years each - and am safe, sane, clean, healthy, and drug or substance free. And I will take you places you never imagined.

I live a "normal" life. I own a successful professional business, a house, a cat and dog, a garden. I read, I like independent films, I spend time with friends.

One line e-mails will be deleted. I’ve taken some time to tell you a bit about me so please take the time to tell me something about you. If you don't have a photo at your profile, please be prepared to send one after we exchange an e-mail or two; I will do the same thing.

I know there are a lot of fakes, fakers, phishers and phoneys who post profiles here. I’m not one of them. And I’m adept at figuring out who they are by reading the first line of their profile or e-mail. So, if you’re just having some harmless enjoyment, please bother somebody else. I’m not interested in cyber, cam, or anything other than meeting someone real.