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For some reason this site removes all the grammar from my bio every time I save it. Youll have to cut me some slack and just trust I know how to type gud. Im going to try and stick to short sentences and use triple spacing to compensate.
Off the top, Im not particularly interested in flings and casual sex. Ive always found that the best intimacy stems from a shared love of long-term monogamy and kink. Because of this, Im looking for someone who Im both sexually and socially compatible with. If youre fairly new to the ropes-and-chains game, thats absolutely fine too, though. Curiosity is just as fun as confidence.
Im an experienced fan of a lot of different things including bondage, dom-sub play, free use, sensory deprivation, humiliation, orgasm control, and cum play The list goes on. But Im also a fan of keeping my bedroom life and not-bedroom life fairly separate. Not so interested in friends and colleagues knowing what Im all about kink-wise. Its possible to be both voyeuristic and discreet, I figure.
That said, Im also a FIRM proponent of establishing limits, safety words, and after-care. Playing safe is the only way to play. If youre looking for something that doesnt involve these, were probably not a good fit.
If youve gotten this far, I might as well tell you a little bit about me in the grander sense
Im a PhD candidate and sometimes-teacher at a major University, and Im generally a pretty goal-oriented person. Im also highly creatively motivated and do work in both the music and film industries. I like bars, but not clubs, and have a real soft spot for karaoke. That said, Im just as likely to be at home playing board games and re-watching Its Always Sunny in Philadelphia or Jeopardy as I am to be out having a beer. Truthfully, I am often at odds with myself. Not particularly interested in travel, but I do like exploring. Have a dog but prefer cats. Always trying to eat better, exercise more, and sleep longer. Like to debate but not to argue. Its kind of an unspoken goal to be able to talk for 10 minutes about any topic. Sometimes people tell me Im pretty funny. ENTP if you have any interest in the whole Myers-Briggs thing.
If were talking about you beyond the bedroom, Im looking for someone who wants a family one day, whos also passionate about at least one thing in their life. School or work or a hobby at least. Im looking for a partner whos a submissive and open-minded at home, but confident and charismatic elsewhere. Someone I can introduce to my friends and bring to parties without having to guide all the socializing for. Not so into those who are condescending or passive-aggressive, if those are things youve been described as before. If were getting real skin-deep Im a sucker for collarbones and dark hair, but general aesthetics are very, very secondary to sexual and lifestyle compatibility.
Also, not really into the whole DDLG dynamic, so if thats what youre looking for this likely wont work. In fact, any predisposition to obsessing about Disney movies is likely enough to make us not fly.
And thats that, I think. Shoot me a message if youre interested in chatting. Ill always reply.
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