I am a single dominant man who’s been actively involved in the BDSM lifestyle since early 02’ I’m looking for a woman for a D/s relationship in which I expect commitment, surrender and trust. I can give my sub/slave a life with clear rules and rituals. A pain and servitude relationship in secure surroundings. The relationship will not be based entirely on pain, play and sex; but also very strongly on rules concerning your physical and mental behavior. Trust and communication will be key to the relationship.

BDSM is not my lifestyle but my way of life; you can substitute the word lifestyle for personality. The lifestyle is the way I think, see and feel toward life and is synonymous with my personality. I’m a professional writer and an avid reader and cigar smoker.

I’ve been totally honest in this profile page. I’ve written about my belief in the total power exchange in my blog, I’ve also written about my disability in my blog.

If you are interested in reading my blog or learning more about who I am contact me here and I'll send you the link to my blog, my YIM screen name and more pictures I have of myself.

I was serious and honest in writing this; please show me the same respect when contacting me.