Collarspace.com

Simple really - I'm looking to meet people with a view to spanking their bare bottoms, having them adopt various positions etc... the usual thing around these parts, I suspect. That does NOT mean that I'm looking to rush things when actually doing the spanking - the above only applies to the process by which we get there; it doesn't have to take an age. The following are observations having spent a little time on this site: There seem to be a lot of supposed 'submissives' here with a very dominant-aggressive personality. Please realise that any half-decent looking women will attract a fair amount of attention here, so for a man to send a quick message to establish interest or otherwise is not some form of insult, it is simply common sense and saving us all a lot of time. Once common interest is established that is the time to say more. But even then, don't expect essays - all us guys have wasted our time writing to someone with the attention span of a gnat, who dismisses it out of hand on the basis of some minor divergence from their perfect dream scenario - displaying about as submissive a personality as Hitler. So... One thing I've come to realise is that there's no such thing as the perfect partner in this game - flexibility and compromise are key. And compromise works both ways. Within limits of course - if you want to be tied up, tickled or beaten with a feather duster - then those are possible - if you want to eat excrement, it's not. Although each of us has their limits, some things can easily be accommodated for you if they make no difference to me (I might even enjoy some things I have never thought about before). If I can't do it, then I won't judge you for liking it. Feel free to ask. Lastly, please don't ask for face photos; you may be prepared to broadcast this predilection to the world, but please respect the fact that I'm not. Happy to meet for a 'see if it works' in a public place first, preferably just a quick look-see then go back to talk on here. That said, I probably don't really care what your face etc looks like as long as you're not 22 stone the key thing will be what you like to do and... what your bum looks like when bending over :)
joyopposites
 
 Age: 25
 State College, Pennsylvania