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| Austin, Texas Dominant Woman in the Scene since '75. Trained 3 years as a 24/7 slave; then received Dominance training. I'm very intense, but always SSC. I like flogging, C&BT, sensual play, clips/clamps/zippers, multi-person scenes, role-play and so on. :-) I'm the founder of Austin's 1st PanSexual Educational BDSM Club and am active in the Austin community. I want to own a 24/7 slave, eventually, after the normal Scene "courtship". He must be single, able to relocate, bright, honest, sincere, forthright, service oriented, truly ready to give me all of his fealty, and very submissive. I will cherish such an ideal slave with all my heart and soul and be his Mistress forever.
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I believe that certain rare and beautiful slave-souls can live a life of true and rewarding service to their respected and beloved Owner in a true slave/Mistress relationship. That?s what I want, and I will accept no less.
I certainly don?t want a person who thinks of himself as ?it?; I want a man who is proud to be a man, but who submits his sexuality to my control. I want a man who is proud to be submissive and impeccable in his service to me, who can find joy in scrubbing a floor, going grocery shopping, or in escorting me to a museum opening... because I ordered it so. I want a man who enjoys, even craves, expertly applied pain and who is sexually stimulated by it. (I love to deny my bottom?s sexual needs until he is abjectly frustrated and has to beg for release. That is beautiful and very exciting to me.) I want a man who has his own life, interests, and friends, so I don?t have to supervise him every second, but who puts me first, always. (Other qualifications: single/divorced, drug & disease free, willing to relocate, intelligent, loyal, trustworthy, obedient, has a sense of humor, presentable in public, etc.) |
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HOW TO ADDRESS ME
Do NOT call me ?Mistress?. I don't own a slave, so I don't qualify for that glorious title. You may call me 'Potential-Mistress', 'Trainer', or 'Ma'am', as I DO deserve those appellations. BTW, in my opinion, unless you are now owned by a Mistress or Master, you don't qualify for the title ?slave?, either. In the Old Guard way of thinking, which I endorse, our titles are truly mutually interdependent. You may call yourself a 'potential-slave', 'slave-supplicant', 'submissive', or 'trainee'. Or you could adopt my new word, culled from those initials: 'pssssst', 'psst' for short. The sound of that word seems appropriate for use when 'calling' a slave, doesn't it? :-) |
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I received the email below last week. He says it better than I ever could!
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Good Afternoon Trainer Carolyn,
Good manners and protocol are what this is about, Ma'am, although most seem to think it's all about the sex. I give much of the credit?for my proper BDSM upbringing to my trainer and teacher,?Ms. M. She was very much like yourself in her understanding that, without respect and the proper training, all you're left with is a lot of want-to-be's looking for easy sex. Thank you for your compliment on my manners. I will relay it to Ms. M.
Regards, s/b? |
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I have been offline for about a year, after meeting a self-termed submissive online and beginning a relationship with him. That ended quickly, as he was neither submissive nor an honorable man.
I took some time to recover from the sadness and disappointment I felt in myself, for my lack of foresight and bad character judgement. I now am ready to once again seek my dream slave. If you qualify (See above!), please write me. |
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HOW WE WILL MEET
1 After correspondence and long telephone calls have proved that you are truly interested and dedicated, we will negotiate the Terms and Conditions of our temporary relationship, covering such matters as safety and the responsibilities expected of each of us. Assuming that there is a long distance between us, we will arrange to meet for a long weekend under Safe conditions. You will be temporarily collared (with a heavy, masculine neck chain) for that period, and I will test you extensively. After, we will part and take time to think about our experiences with each other. (If you're local, we'll meet for coffee in a public place to see if we're compatible and go from there.)
2 If you meet my requirements as I meet yours, you will arrange to visit me in Austin. The length of time you stay will depend on how long a leave of absence you can arrange, without any damage to your present life/job. Hopefully, it will be at least a month or more. (FYI, I feel that you MUST be able to return to your former life without facing any undue problems, because some good subs find that living as a total slave is too much for them in the long term.) During the time you're here, we'll sign a negotiated Dominant/submissive's Contract and I will collar you as a sub-trainee with a locked chain. When the period of time is over and you leave, we will again take time to think.
3 Should we agree that our D/s Contract has been fulfilled gloriously and that our M/s relationship will certainly succeed, you will move to Austin, I will sign a negotiated Mistress/slave Contract with you, and your slave's collar will be welded around your neck. We will have a RL 24/7 relationship, and we'll live the BDSM good life, as I define it. :-)
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A RL recommendstion from my former collared submissive, responding to my request to edit my profile for goofs and accuracy:
"Dear Trainer, Your profile reads well, and describes you very well. How many dominants (and submissives for that matter) know what they want, and know how to express themselves? One of the things i always liked about you, was how clear you always made directions. i never heard you say, "Get that package over there." Instead you would say something like, "Get that package on the right side of the third shelf." Your use of the word "paragon" is a bit challenging - since most men probably don't think of themselves that way (even if they are). So my only suggested change might be to temper that word with another that's a little more plausible. Very best wishes, always, gemshadow" |
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It's true that I used to ride my own motorcycle, that I earned my leathers the old fashioned way, and that I can be extremely severe. However, that's only a small part of who I am. It's the simplicity of the message given by that one photo that I object to, for your sake. Do not be fooled. Look at all the other photos; they show a more complete picture. :-) |
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