A 31 year old Straight top male from Tacoma, Washington
My current status is: Married and sort of available (I am gone a LOT, over the next 365 days I will only be home 100 days).
I am not a swinger, at least not how I see them.
I am polyamorous.
I am picky with who I spend time with, and I do not waste my time with people I know nothing about or I do not care about.
I am in relationships with people I really care about. I do not see them ending at this point, so no one I get involved with would fill the primary part of my Life; it’s filled.
However, "*I do not believe in starvation economics" when I speak about love. I believe love and friendship are the same word. I believe in order to be someone’s friend you have to love who they are to you. I show that love in a number of caring ways, and that sometimes involves physical intimacy.
I am living in Tacoma now, and I re-joined the Wet Spot as a member on 16 Oct 2004 (I was a member when I lived in Oak Harbor a few years ago, 1999 ish "Card Number 1088").
I'm a member of The Wet Spot, and a big fan. Check it out.
Notes on the checklists:
Every time I look at them, I think about the fact that the checklists are really no way to know what I am like, or what I am into.
For instance I mark most things with a 3, then a few with a 4 and very few with a 5. When in reality, not every time I do a 5 is it insanely erotic. And some times when I do a 3 it is.
The sad reality is different people bring out different sides to my personality (rightly so) and so everything on that list is a soft number that can and will change with time (I do try to adjust them from time to time to take that into account).
Update: I am going to try and get some friends to take more pictures for me to post. Maybe some of me in action, maybe some of me in leather? Not really sure.
* Ethical Slut
Essay Questions
Why are you here?
Because I enjoy the look of a woman who is feeling both Pain and Pleasure.
Briefly describe your personality -- what makes you tick? What should people know about you?
I have 2 children, and their mother and I were married. They live with her, and I pay child support.
What's your ambition? What do you hope to achieve in your life?
To love as often and I can, and not worry about anyone else's pre-conceived ideas about how or what love is.
What are your pet peeves? What really ticks you off? And how do you react when you're angry?
When I am Feeling angry, I try to talk with the people who I am angry with. This is a huge change in who I was just a few years ago. It has taken a lot of counseling to change this part of who I am, I am not perfect, but I think I am healthier than a lot of other people.
What are your 'deal breakers'? (turn offs etc - IE smoking, blue hair, braces, leprosy)
Once upon a time, I would have said Kids and Marriage, but thats changed with time.
Who I am
Orientation: Heterosexual only
Education: Some College
Work: Full Time
Religion: I practice a private spirituality
Height: 6 Feet, 2 inches (187 cm)
Weight: 180-199lbs (82-90kg)
Eyes: Change frequently
I consider myself to be: Attractive
Hair color: Black
Hair Length: Crew Cut
Body hair: A little
Facial Hair Smooth / Shaved
Pubic hair: Shaved or waxed to be neat
I am at least functional in: English
What I'm looking for
I prefer my partner(s) to be: A little shorter than me
I want to meet someone: I don't care about weight
I prefer my partner(s) to be: Normaly over 24.
I'm looking for: Real life friends, and Real life encounters
When it comes to sex or intimacy: I'm a little dominant
My current status is: Married but available
Somebody's appearance: counts, but I look at the whole package
Relationships should be: Casual and unencumbering
When it comes to couples: I'm Married and wouldn't mind meeting another couple
I'd be willing to relocate: Absolutely not
What I like
When it comes to pets: I like pets in general
My clothing preferences: Jeans / T-shirt
Professional attire
Goth / Vamp stuff
Formalwear
Fetishwear
For entertainment, I like: A quiet restaurant
Intimate get-togethers with friends
Bars / Nightclubs
Theater / Opera / Symphony
Staying Home
Bondage, Bondage, Bondage
Favorite Foods: Italian
I'm allergic to: Smoke
Alcohol Consumption: I'm a light social drinker
Smoking (tobacco): I smoke on very rare occasions
Hobbies: Art (viewing)
Computers
Movies (viewing)
Music (listening)
Music Preference: Classical
Industrial
Metal
Gothic
Techno
R&B
Punk
50's or 60's rock
Jazz
I am a: Morning person
At parties, I am: Depends on my mood
Sex and BDSM
I'm into Bondage: More often than not
My BDSM experience level: I've been playing for years
S & M: I love it when it hurts so good
Disabilities: I have no disabilities
Health issues: I have health issues that don't affect play
Group Sex: I have an open mind but it doesn't really float my boat
Regarding Anal Sex: I would have to be the giver
Anal Sex: I could live with or without it
When scening, I like: Private scenes at home
Small play parties Fetish / play clubs
