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Divorced, professional, creative (some might say deviously so), compassionate (to a reasonable degree), romantic, supportive, eclectic, educated, traveled; adventurous, curious; sense of humor (albeit sometimes a bit too cerebral for most folks); semi-experienced in the lifestyle (relationships, not public play). Interested in the mental as well as physical aspects of D/s and B&D. Writer (fiction, poetry, erotica), singer/songwriter; enjoy a variety of vanilla activities. Tend to use semi-colons even in IMs.


Looking for an available (e.g, not married/attached/etc.), intelligent, interesting, reasonably attractive 40-50 y.o. (I'd consider someone older but not younger) submissive for LTR that includes all the usual vanilla activities. Not looking for a "play date" or "discrete" relationship.

PERSONAL QUOTES:

#1: "Either you deserve a sound spanking -- or I just feel like giving you one."


#2: "There's no such thing as too much foreplay."


#3: "Life's too short to wear cheap underwear."

11/26/2007 1:54:02 PM
Well, here it is over a year later and all my non-expectations have been met...IOW, haven't met the right woman.  Oh, there are indeed some lovely and enticing women listed here but there's always something listed as a requirement or deal-breaker in their profile that indicates I'm not the one they're looking for (and it would be absurd to try to fake it) or, well, they're not what I'm looking for.  But, in case anyone is actually reading this about the time it's posted, hope you have a wonderous holiday and joyous New Year (and find the one you're looking for).
10/12/2006 8:19:34 PM
Joined CollarMe.com today with no expectations. Perhaps I should add another personal quote (actually a rewrite of one I wrote for a line of greeting cards that never got published): "Even on a good day I'm beginning to believe that all the good submissives are either married or lesbians. On a bad day, I begin to consider a sex change operation." [Feel free to corrupt and repeat that any way that suits your fancy...but please attribute it to my fictitious purveyor of profundity: Milton Anon. Biographical details of Milton's non-existence will be furnished upon request.] *** Do I truly believe this? Nah. But, a lack of expectations allows me to enjoy whatever comes along -- whether it's a good conversation over a cup of coffee or drink or meeting someone to hang out with (so age/kink/orientation/etc. are all irrelevant -- unless the police or mental health professionals need to get involved). *** Having just moved to the Atlanta, GA area, I'm looking to meet new people -- and most likely those who aren't active in the munches, play parties/events. I've met some of those folks, like them, but haven't met anyone I really want to hang out with (much less anyone I want to tie up and...well...fill in whichever blanks you feel a need to fill in). *** So..."We shall see what we shall see, All that is and what may be...." *** For those who enjoy MDom erotic fiction (aka high-class smut), I have posted some online on a free, no-salesman-will-call website. Ask me for the URL. *** And I really dislike not being able to put in paragraph breaks.

madamellen1
 
 Age: 30
 New to Houston, Texas