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TomWonder

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Looking for a good fem-sub that likes to play. I'm interested in many aspects of BDSM, but not all.
I'm looking for a woman that I can talk to on a 1 on 1 basis, but at other times talk to on another level.
A little about myself. I'm 40ish. No children (I like my hair where it is, and the color that it is), I collect comic books, Star Wars and Star Trek stuff, clocks, and other tweaky kind of things. Now to my interests. I'm looking for a fem sub to serve me as I like.
I like girls that like to be naughty.
I like girls that want to be naughty. And then need to be taught the error of their ways. I like role playing, bondage, toys, crops, flogs, and Victoria's Secret.
I also want and need a woman that I can connect with on a real life basis. I can do 24/7, or on a "it's that time" basis. On occaision, you'll have to be my science experiment. I like to see what works and what does'nt. Plus, i get to practice on you. And practice makes ............ BTW, keywords are always in use.
I was raised Southern Baptist (pool your tears), but am not religious. But I dont believe anybody learned anything bad by going to church. I prefer to be agnostic about the whole thing.
I love great conversation. I thrive for it. If you talk about yourself all the time, thats not good. Sharing of stories is one thing. Being self centered is another.
A few more things about me ........
I have a great sence of humor. I love to laugh, and I love to make people laugh. If my pic made you giggle, you'll understand. And I'm fun at parties !! I'm also the captain of the neighborhood watch where I live. I am also a member of a BBQ Team. We compete every year in The Memphis In May BBQ Cooking Contest. I have two trophys on the wall to prove it. So I do most of the cooking around here. I will help with clean up though, just stay out of my kitchen !!
I do smoke. I like vodka and wine(Little Boomie merlot rocks!!). Dont want to offend, but it's better that you know.
To wrap this up, I have 15 years experience doing this and I cant get enough. My last g/f decided she did'nt want to do that after all that time. And I need more !! The willingness to please another(Me) is what I desire. I aim to please as well. If you handle your punishment well, you will be rewarded in the end. I make my own floggers and other toys. I really enjoy it and am in the process of building many toys and may even start selling them. The woodworking and adding that personal touch are a lot of fun !!
7/28/2011 2:02:07 PM

Spring has sprung,

Fall has fell,

Now it's Summer,

And it's hotter than usual.

1/27/2011 6:49:49 PM

64 Degrees for Saturday !! I smell a cook-out coming ....

1/10/2011 12:04:04 PM

Wow !!! Doesn't everything in Memphis look better with 5 inches of snow covering it ?? I think so !! Well, off to go sledding ........

1/9/2011 10:40:51 PM

It's begining to look a lot like Christmas .... just 2 weeks late though. Going sledding tomorrow !! Shelby Farms !! Be There !!

9/22/2010 3:07:25 PM
Five days and 5 new high temps. Please bring on Fall !!!
7/29/2010 5:25:26 PM
Lawd is it hot !!! Bring on October please !!!
6/28/2010 4:34:19 PM
If you dont live in the U.S., dont contact me. If you want me to e-mail you at some other address other than Collarme, dont contact me. I'm sick and tired of getting messages that want me to e-mail you or to join some other website so you can send me pics. You can do all of that through Collarme. Scammers go away or get reported !!!!
6/16/2010 10:04:16 PM
And ladies please ... Don't message me and ask me to join some other site to chat with you. We can chat here. So if we can't chat here .... don't message me.
5/31/2010 7:44:44 PM
 Ah .... ribs were great and so was the company !! I aint ate that much in a long time. I'll sleep good tonight. Hope everyone had a great Memorial Day !!
5/29/2010 10:27:50 PM
Memorial day is Monday. Just finished rubbin ribs today. Any fem subs that need a good rubbing ??
5/17/2010 5:16:07 PM
Well the BBQ Festival is over and done with. But boy did we have a blast !! Can't wait till next year !!
5/3/2010 4:46:45 PM
BBQ Festival starts Sunday for me. I will be out of touch from the 9th till the 16. But I'll be having bunches of fun. Hope to see some of you there !!!
4/30/2010 12:25:19 PM
 I sure feel sorry for anybody going to Music Fest this weekend. Looks like up to 10 inches of rain could drown it out. Hopefully it'll get all the downpours out of the way for BBQ Fest !!!
6/2/2008 7:15:11 PM
Still missing Ardiana. Hope things work out.
5/21/2008 10:02:41 PM
Another BBQ Festival has come and gone. But dayum we had a blast !! I live for this all year, and its a great place to blow off some steam with good food and good friends. I hate that we didn't win chit this year, but there is always next year !!
4/15/2008 7:32:39 PM
Well I hate it, But Ardiana has asked to be released because she wants to move to another state to be closer to her children. So I wish her the best and hope that all works out well for her. She was a great sub and she will always hold a piece of my heart reserved for her. I hate to lose her, but I respect her need to be closer to her kids. But she knows that if something happens, and she needs me, that I'll be there for her. Good Luck darlin !!!!
2/15/2008 6:50:28 PM
Well .... life with Ardiana is wonderful. I couldn't have asked for better. Serves me well in ALL aspects (and I do mean ALL).She has submitted to several naughty things that I wanted her to do for me, has endured the 15 to 20 orgasms that she gets when I play with her hard, and she knows how to finish the deal (if you know what I mean ....). Good things happen to those that wait. If I didn't know better ..... I'd think I must be livin right !!!
10/17/2007 7:03:59 PM

There seems to be an attitude on here that if you meet a sub, that that means they belong to you. That is not always the case. I have met my a few subs on here. Just because i met a sub or slave, I dont believe they are my property just because I meet them. It is their willingness to submit to me that makes them mine. They do this do this of their own will. If people have a prob with the fact that they met a sub, and it wasn't right, and then they spout ugly messages to that sub, then grow the f&ck up. And PLEASE stop sending  nasty messages to my sub telling her ugly things !!
I'm sorry that it didn't work out. But that is life !! Get over it and move on !!! Geeze, the lamers on here !!!!

10/15/2007 9:57:51 PM
Well I could complain .... but I aint gonna put you through that ...... Hehehe
10/7/2007 7:25:48 PM
Spring has sprug,
Fall aint fell,
now it's October,
and its still HOT AS HELL !!!
9/30/2007 9:22:19 AM
Well the sign does it again !!! Thanks to Ardiana for an evening of hot steamy sex ..... and a good spanking !!!!
7/23/2007 12:33:08 PM
Well it seems I'm too old for about half of the fem-subs on CollarMe. Even if I dont look it or act like it. You wouldn't judge a book by its cover, so why say that over 40 just aint your bag ?? Thats called pre judging. Or Prejudice.
Lets all keep an open mind here ......
1/7/2007 7:49:22 PM
Seems that sign I'm wearing in my profile pic gets a good laugh out of everbody !! Woohoo !!!
1/6/2007 10:00:26 PM
Woohoo !! I got a responce !!!
"well you sound interesting ". Made my day !!! The pic must have done it.
elladear
 
 Age: 49
  Washington