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| I am an experienced, sapiosexual, married Dominant male seeking a married submissive female.
Let me explain- Yes, I have my love and my life but she doesn't want the lifestyle. I have her permission to exercise my Dom side outside of our life as long as I don't bring anything home with me, if you understand what I mean? We ventured down the road of D/s for a while but it's just not her thing. She understand it's mine and that I need to let the beast out of its cage.
I know there are married women who's husbands cannot bring the Dom to them, and they too have no desire to depart from their current lifestyle. I need someone who understands what it means to submit, to care for and to trust their Dom. I need someone who isn't afraid of letting their beast out for a while, then return to their normal life, and who won't judge.
My kinks are basic; I seek a true submissive who understands her place and knows how to adore in exchange for Dominance, respect and adoration, care and compassion, who understands obedience and isn't afraid of forced orgasms. I have incredible staying power and stamina, and you should be able to endure as many orgasms as I see fit to give you, survive being brought to the edge repeatedly in a buildup to an earth shattering, "speaking in tongues" sort of release. It' is not for the faint of heart.
I am very good with ropes and hope you're a "knotty" girl who can embrace a spanking or three in your helpless state. I don't believe bruises are badges, but red bottoms are best as they drive the adrenal rush which is the precursor to the endorphin release to catapult you to subspace, and beyond. Most importantly, there must be time for aftercare. I can only play during the week, my weekends are reserved for my family.
Lastly, I am in a high-profile place with my career and know many people throughout the metro. I will not send you a photo or sext you, in fact there will never be a photo of you with me in any circumstance, cropped or otherwise. We will meet in the public space several times and get to know one another to determine chemistry before losing our inhibitions. If we both agree to TPE, there will be an agreement inked between us for our mutual protection. This agreement will detail your hard limits, soft limits and desired kinks. It will be respected, and yet we will visit it from time to time to test its limits, but never during a scene.
I'm not just another Dominant looking to slap someone around; thats called abuse. If this profile matches what it is you seek, you may contact me to arrange a meeting. I may refer to you respectfully as miss, but you may not call me anything but Tom until we decide to take the arrangement to another level. Until that time, we're just two people talking about D/s and kinks, seeing if there is a fit.
Final disclaimer: you must be drug, disease and drama free. Everyone's seen the scene where the rabbit gets boiled by the psycho chick- no drama, no drugs, no disease (and be willing to prove it), period.
I look forward to hearing from you...
-TomO'
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