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Update: It's been years since I've updated my profile, it's about time. I have learned much over the last two years and no longer think of myself as a novice. Certainly there are things I wish/need to learn but I have defined who I am as a Dom. I am the DaddyDom, dedicated less to control than to mentoring and growing my submissive. To build her up so that she is more than she was. This is not to mean that I am not a dominant, I still assert my role and do not let my submissive walk on me. However I am not a dominant because of some self need to control, I am a dominant because it is the way I can best assist my submissive in their own growth.
At this time I am open to the idea of a second sub as my first one has grown into a stable, polished, confident woman worthy of me. I am prepared to begin again, with my first sub still by my side as we build up another woman.
Original Profile:
My first lifestyle experience was by accident... now I am actively seeking more.
I've found someone to learn with...
-Face picture available upon request.
-To all sub/slaves. I am not your Dom/Master. I will not try to force you to do anything. I'm not looking for meaningless sex. Someday I will want a second sub in a poly household. That day is years away. What I do want is to gather information on the lifestyle from a sub/slave's point of view. Yes I can ask my own sub, and I do. I want more than one sub's point of view. So if your interested in conversation, then feel free to send me a message.
-To all Doms/Lords/Masters/Grand Poohbahs, or whatever else you want to call yourself. My sub is not available to you, back off! Requests to share/trade will be deleted without bothering to respond. If you want to courteously offer advice, suggestions, or information, then I'll respond as a gentleman should. With courtesy and honor.
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Back in Omaha for the long haul. It's been a crazy ride, Afghanistan, Colorado, Western Nebraska, finally back home.
Still interested in finding a second sub to join us, but not looking very hard, just enjoying life and getting settled in, continuing to explore the depths, hart, and mind, of my existing sub. It's amazing to me how far she has come, from the first time I tied her to a table to today, she has grown personally as well as in the lifestyle. She's become more of a switch, which is the natural progression when your goal is not to subvert her will but to expand and strengthen her capabilities. I'm okay with this, it was afterall my intention. |
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Back in town for a couple weeks, taking some time to visit Denver also while I'm here. It's been interesting being overseas, I like it more than most I think.
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So I was reading a profile and this sub was looking for a daddy dom. I'd seen this before and assumed I knew what this meant, but this time I thought hmm, I don't actually know. So I went ahead and did a search and this is what I found: http://www.strctdaddy.com/Discipline_Inc/A_Daddy_Dom.html
Not even close to what I thought... actually it fits my own point of view very well. I see my role as a Dom to mean more than control, it is a mentoring role. Helping my sub grow, to become more than she is. That is my earnest desire. The standards by which I measure my success.
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One thing I have noticed is an abundance of female submissive/slave profiles that have an angry tenor to them. I started looking at other male dom profiles and I think I know why. Too many cruel men just looking to use BDSM as a way to abuse women. Anyone else notice this trend, or am I off base?
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I'm going to be in Virginia for 13 days this may. Looking forward to it, who knows what could happen?
-T
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Who owns a collar? I have seen a lot of advice that suggests that a slave's collar is owned by their master and a sub's by themselves. I don't agree. I feel the collar is always owned by the dominate one. It is the willingness to accept the collar that makes the relationship strong. The acceptance of their submissive position that gives them power. Whether sub or slave, if they can not choose at any moment to remove the collar, then they are not truly yours in mind and heart. Much as they say, 'let open the cage, if the bird flies and does not return, then it was not truly yours.' The same is true, if you remove choice, you as the dominant surrender your own power over them.
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Going to be in the Sacramento area for twelve days. I'm looking forward to it, it'll be my first trip to California!
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I don't suffer from a lack of confidence. I know my strengths and recognize my weaknesses. I don't fear my weaknesses, and because of that, I take strength from them. I am not a dominate because I feel the need to be empowered. I am empowered because I am by nature a dominate.
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What to do when your in a vanilla marriage and it goes south?
See it as a chance to finally experience the lifestyle you want.
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