Why do some say they want you to get to “know” them, for the person they are, yet reveal little? You’re left to interpret a word here; a statement there, you try to stitch together the bits and pieces to see the inner them, the real person they are. Bits and pieces don't make a whole. Try to dig for more and you're "annoying and bugging". You have to ask yourself, do they actually want to be “known” for who they really are?