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"BDSM is something people do with each other -- not something someone does to somebody else."
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'Remember: No matter where you go, there you are.'
--B. Banzai
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First and most: I am happily fulfilled and thrilled beyond words to at long last own, love, and live with my beautifully brillant, powerfully successful, and potently devoted complete partner in life and slave, AC. We participate regularly in several of the local kink communities, including Dark Odyssey, Black Rose, The Crucible, and many events -- so please say hello if you see us out.
We also have a pretty good custom-furnished and equipped dungeon play and sex space in our house in D.C., where we enjoy having people join us -- privately as well as somewhat regularly for parties.
I am an enthusiastically fun, happily kinky, truly polyamorous 'regular' professional who is now finally enjoying this part and time of life ... I am a hedonist who is trained, experienced, and naturally dominant in BDSM and sexual play.
I like the words. I love to paint the mental picture; to create a world for us to thoroughly enjoy ourselves within. Elaborating and exploring that world is such part of our enjoyment.
I admire, am tremendously attracted to, and love ferociously smart, strongly independent, successfully accomplished sexy women. I thrill to collaborate together with such a lady in order to ultimately receive her submission and take her in hand - the contrast is delicious and the ultimate right-ness of it is divine.
It seems I am constantly recalling old likes that I had long ago put away so firmly that I forgot about them -- as well as new things every day.
I thoroughly enjoy a broad range of play, from lighter "social" activities through receiving abject submission and service -- patiently, leisurely, urgently, sometimes roughly, with zeal and real passion. I nurture the anticipation the grows growing with every glance, each breath, the sounds, touching ... working together in concert for pleasure and satisfaction.
I value and follow the integrated community standards of "safe, sane, and consensual" activity (or more accurately, risk-aware consensual kink) as well as building personal integrity and the power of jointly agreed commitment.
Mostly I enjoy imaginatively fun, sane, safe, not-too-young and like- minded submissive ladies and submissive or cuckolded couples to thoroughly enjoy ourselves together ... and while of course "just play" is wonderful, I most like to get to know each other over time.
I play across a wide range of levels of pleasure, intensity, feeling, activity, balance of power exchange, S&M, etc., based on the "dance" of desire with my partner in that play. Over the past several years I have equipped and furnished our home play space, which we now use privately and also use to host semi-regular kink parties.
I love how wonderful life has become - the 'pinch me' experience I am having virtually every day living this life -- living what I always knew was right, but had relegated and resigned to "fantasy". Even the problems I face now are those that I only dreamed of having a few short years ago, and so I relish them -- for they are mine.
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"All the soarings of my mind begin in my blood."
--Rainer Maria Rilke
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Some things I particularly enjoy in play include:
- Connecting
- Medical Play
- Sex and sexiness
- Fire play (with wands, cups, bursts, and flash cotton)
- Electricity play (TENS, Violet Wand, Stun Gun)
- Decorative needles and staples
- Super Glue play
- Rope bondage, as well as metal and leather
- Impact play with floggers, whips, canes, and ... "others"
- Toys such as pyrex glass dildos and Hitachi/Eroscillator/Acuvibe/Lelo vibrators
- Dominating and taking a lady in hand
- Wax Play
- Playing roles -- especially those with an inherent power imbalance
(doctor, priest, professor, boss, warden, etc.)
And I have sort of a 'standard' fare of turn-offs and dislikes, I think:
- Rudeness (except for deliberate fun)
- Officiousness (again, except on purpose)
- Ill-prepared tops who have not learned or practiced the kind of play they attempt, and the complement - bottoms who play irresponsibly
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“You have a curious way of arousing one's imagination, stimulating all one's nerves, and making one's pulses beat faster. You put an aureole on vice, provided only if it is honest. Your ideal is a daring courtesan of genius. Oh, you are the kind of man who will corrupt a woman to her very last fiber.”
― Leopold von Sacher-Masoch, Venus in Furs
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