They whine about "fakes" and those only wanting to cyber, yet, when you offer words of advice or encouragement through a message, they only delete the message, unread, without care or wonder as to what it might say.  Amazing how wonderful their real world minds work.  Do they have ESP and know what the messages state before hand?  I really don't think so, but I'm not leaving that as a definite (stranger things have happened - btw, I have plenty of ocean-front property for sale.  It is just in Arizona). 

I can see some fronts of always believing that age is a barrier, but I have always been of the opinion that you never learn from having a closed mind and always block anyone outside of a set of numbers (age range).  It might be shocking and an eye-opener if some of these whiners actually took the time to explore and get some education (or at least read a few words of encouragement and agreement to some of their rants) instead of their immature actions.  (Not everyone who sends a message is over-bearing, stupid, wanting only to berate and humiliate you, or be a bore and ask for nude photos). 

To others, get over your "I'm so much better than you" attitude and be civil enough to at least make any semblance of reply to an encouraging note or message that is in itself civil and is seeking only to be meant as something other than demanding.

I often wonder if there is any one on here that is true to their profile?  "I want this and that," most of them read, but when offered the "moon and stars," it is like they didn't even want a thing that they said they did after all.  Just once, I'd like to find just one who is real and true to what they have stated as their wants, desires, etc. 

Get real.  Age is just a number and for some, as the years increase, find that they are still in tune with the youngest of adult generations in thought, music, and still has the wisdom to not want to make the same mistakes another time round.

Curious that you can make contact and everything seems to be on the level, then ......  Ok, where did they go???????  Or better, a simple comment about one's profile or their collage of photos/pictures or just one in particular and it is like you have Dissed the world.  Get real people.  If you are not being honest with yourselves, how can you be open and honest with anyone else?

So, so many on here contend and profess that "they are real and want to know and learn about this lifestyle".  Or, even better, "they want to relocate NOW and want you to be ultra extreme".  You write about extreme and how you would do it to them and then, it is like, "Oh, no... that is too much for me"....   Get real, say what you really mean, and know what you are talking about before you say it.

I do not often write here, but some venting is well in order.  You write messages, attach a photo, even when you have photos on your profile, and alas, they are completely ignored or deleted without even having the faintest of courtesy as to even read what you have written.  Not every message from every person is a "slam" or "list of demands".  Maybe if some people took the time to "read" before they make indiscriminate catagorizations of people, mostly based solely on age, they might become a little more educated and find that everyone  doesn't fall into set patterns and genres.  Give it a try.  Just open the message and read it before making an assumption of the content.  You might find yourself amazed at what some of those messages really say.

It is so sad that the wanna-be subs/slaves are so lame as to leave open the one most important thing in their profile and that is age restriction.  Then when they are sent a message, if the person isn't within their age acceptable range, they don't bother reading what has been sent, be it advice, encouragement, or just an offer of friendship, but delete it without even opening it to see what it is about. 
I hate to say this, but to one blonde, try reading before you just delete.  You might find it has some encouraging messages and concensus about what your profile might be saying.