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2-5-16: Please read my entire profile before sending an email as I've updated and added more pictures. I'll be watching to see who pays attention ;) My pictures are all of me and from my personal pictures.
About myself: I'm a Big Beautiful Domme 54 yrs old in body, 25 yrs old in heart..I'm a red headed, green eyed complex, extreme, eclectic, motley and heterogeneous hodgepodge of good -vs- evil... Yin and Yang....I'm also Protector, Sadist, Tiger Bitch,Enchantress, Cuddler, Lover and just all around Twysted Mistress..I've been told I'm funny, honest, perverted, a nurturer, teacher and a damn good cook.
I've been active in the lifestyle and with local play/munch groups off and on for many years, made numerous kinky friends and learned a lot... BUT.... I'm far from "over" educated. I consider myself a Sensual/Mommy Domme but am also a bit of a Sadist. Once a relationship has been established, I enjoy the intimate side of Dominance especially when it leads to more intense play. I can be very loving and affectionate with the right person. My kink interests are: Chastity, orgasm control, tease and deny, anal toys and play, mild humiliation and paddles.
While I consider myself a Dominant, I am not a disciplinarian. I do not enjoy having to discipline an adult who knows better and is just trying to earn a spanking. Responsibility and accountability go a long way with me. I do not enjoy bratty behavior. I will not dole out funishments. If I spank you, it is because I want to, and I can. I do it for my enjoyment."
If you are turned on visually and need the clothing and "smokin' hot body" in order to become aroused, you are most likely a fetishist and sexually driven. There's nothing wrong with being a fetishist, but it's not the D/s power exchange I'm looking for. If you are looking for Angelina Jolie in a catsuit, wearing 5 inch heels and wielding a whip, you've already read too far. It takes more than fetish clothing to be a great Domme. I'm not here to fulfill your fantasies. Ones who are turned on by what a Domme wears or will do to turn THEM on are not the illusive unicorn I seek. Most likely, the experience they boast about has come from behind a computer screen watching porn.
What am I looking for? A devoted submissive who craves servitude and put MY needs above their own (this doesn't mean it will always be MY way or the highway). "Do me" subs will receive no consideration (I can spot you 1000 miles away). A submissive who doesn't need/want to be micromanaged or commanded what to do. One who will be proactive and work towards finding out what I like and simply do it because they want to make me happy.
Bi-sexual boys are a plus as are fem-boys and panty boys but these are not deal breakers. I'm also open to the right female submissive. I'm seeking a submissive for an eventual LTR who is single, unattached and mentally stable preferably within a 100 mile radius. One who is real, sincere, honest, clean, and free of ALL drugs. Maturity is a must (and I don't mean mature in age). Experience is unimportant as that will come. Good communication skills are a MUST!!
I would like to meet someone who is willing to nurture the vanilla aspects of our relationship. Someone who knows when play time is over and can develop a bond and connection that goes beyond spanking and chastity. I want someone who enjoys intimacy as much as I do, but intimacy is not just about sex and fetishes. It is about connecting on a deeper level. I want a relationship where we share our feelings, desires and needs. I won't compromise in what I'm looking for. I know what I want and won't settle for less.
What am I NOT looking for? - "Do me boys" online Domination, kinky chit chat, idle chit chat, one night hook-ups or guys with cock pics as their profile pic.
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"What excites me in a Domme is ‘attitude’. What’s most arousing is the certain knowledge that she has the confidence, the determination, the imagination to get inside my head and fuck me up. The knowledge that she knows what makes me tick, knows how to dig down deep to where all the edgy, dirty stuff is. And then knows what to do with it when she’s found it. My head spins with desire if she can make me feel her power, if I know that she doesn’t give a damn if I’m whimpering with pain, just so long as she’s enjoying it. In fact, she likes whimpering, moaning, even crying out loud, because then she knows she’s getting through to me. She wants me to face the fact that there’s nothing she can’t do with me if she chooses, that she has no scruples, no fear, no mercy". (Source whichsideareyouon)
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So, if you've made it this far down my profile and:
1-have a profile of your own (with pictures of YOU or attached to your first email)
2- are interested in the same type of relationship
3- crave servitude and devotion
4- have reliable transportation and are willing to travel here on weekends
5- believe honesty and communication is paramount in a relationship
6- are single (not separated) and not currently in a relationship
7- can write an initial email with more than "hey how are you"
8- are REAL and ready to prove it
then send me a mail beginning with my name (at the end of this profile) and state you have read my WHOLE profile. This will 1- show true interest and effort 2- show you can follow requests/directions 3- save me time and help weed out those who are only here for sexual gratification.
Ms Terri
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