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painslavegirl
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| I have been a lover of BBW's and BDSM for as long as I remember. In the past I hid that fact, and tried to be "normal". I don't hide either anymore.
I know what I want and I know how to give my partner what she craves and deserves. I can indeed be a Hard Dom but I would much rather have a full relationship outside of play.
I am honest and an advocate of truthfulness and full disclosure.
I am in a loving relationship but unfortunately a Non-BDSM one. I love her dearly but that side of me has not been satisfied in over 3 years. The desire to play has been growing steadily and is now beginning to affect our relationship both inside the bedroom and outside. We have discussed my problem (It is not her problem that she isn’t into BDSM, and I know that) and so here I am.
I am looking for friends first and foremost. Even before, I wasn't very active in the community. Now I am even more out of touch. Hopefully from friendship I will find a Play Partner. I know that my Love will not allow me to become a full time master to anyone at this stage, but who knows what changes may develop in the future.
I know this won’t be everyone’s ideal situation but I have to be honest with myself and anyone who I initiate conversation with, even as friends-to-be.
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I found this while looking at profiles and I think it sums up what I belive and feel about this unique experiance. (re-posted by permission)
There are so many different types of Doms - and I've had wonderful conversations with them. <smile> I have always found that true Dominants want to talk to submissives to get to know them before any sort of play goes on.
There are the bedroom Doms - men who crave total sexual and sensual control.
There are the romantic Doms - men who follow their hearts and for whom D/s is about the male led romantic dynamic. And yes, a good BDSM session can be romantic - because of the power exchange.
There are the 24/7 Doms who want total control of all aspects of the sub's life.
There are the part-time Doms who want control over some aspects of the sub's life, but who also want to see how well the sub handles the other aspects of her life.
There are the Doms who want to have scenes, whether BDSM, sensual or sexual. They have no interest in the D/s side of things - are just into the power exchange of a scene.
So it comes down to what the sub wants - what she's comfortable with - or what she's NOT comfortable with but wants to experience anyway
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There are times when I am confused with my own wants and desires.
What I desire is to find a bigger girl who likes spankings, being sexually teased, orgasm denial, being bound tightly, for a start and who will beg for a whole lot more naughtier, I want all of this from one who will know that all of this is from some one who is attached, and really cannot do a full time relationship.
I have had a few opportuniteis to do that, but I have let them slip. Mostly because I truely love my wife, and even thought she has said she is ok with this I really dont want to screw up my life with her.
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| Age: 18 |
| Sacramento,
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