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Thought for the week: Be thankful :) |
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Thought for the day: tap, tap, tap... smack! |
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Lovely thought for today: house boy |
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Thought for the day: Ball-busting |
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Thought for the day: leaving marks |
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Word of the day: Abrasion |
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It's always a delight when a boy turns out to be a muse, inspiring the diabolically dark delights to flow freely from the shadowy corners of the mind. I just love those creative, hard-working and eager ones that understand what it means to give and to surrender. |
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I really don't understand all the intolerance here. Just because you don't like something doesn't mean nobody else should enjoy it. I would think everyone in this lifestyle would understand that, being that most of the rest of the world is intolerant of what we do and like. We are not all the same, and that is a blessing. Embrace the variety. Politely decline those things that are not for you.
I realize it is entirely possible there is some Dominant looking for a sub who starts a profile with a bold, capitalized list of things that are fake, stupid, and "not real BDSM". It is not what I am looking for. We will each know what is real and what is not when we experience it. If you already know everything, you are done. |
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Specimen:
noun
an individual animal, plant, piece of a mineral, etc., used as an example of its species or type for scientific study or display; a sample for medical testing.
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Two words today:
Perseverance: continuing in a course of action without regard to discouragement, opposition or previous failure.
Futile: incapable of producing any useful result; pointless
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Word of the day: persnickety
|pərˈsnikətē|
adjective informal
placing too much emphasis on trivial or minor details; fussy
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Don't ask to be made into what you are not. Become a better version of what you are.
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In answer to the question, "Why is it so difficult to find the perfect Domme?" or similar:
Because connecting with your perfect match requires getting to know the person, sharing experiences, trusting them, occasionally being disappointed by them and finding that the two of you are able to work past that. It takes time, effort, trust, openness and a lot of other things to create this bond. It doesn't fall out of the sky. You can't buy it. The best things in life are worth the effort. So stop complaining. Stop being so impatient. Enjoy the journey and learn from your mistakes. Remember that all of those other people are on their own journeys and hopefully they are learning and growing too. Even the "fakes." They may be misguided, but there are reasons they have ended up on their path. That doesn't mean you should allow yourself to be victimized or that what they are choosing to do is beneficial. I think the world needs a little more compassion and understanding. "I recognize what you are looking for and no thank you, that is not an experience I want to be a part of" sounds a lot more humane and thoughtful than "NO SCAMMERS, NO FAKERS, NO TIME WASTERS - FUCK OFF!" I understand the sentiment, but it looks hostile and aggressive. Put a germ of yourself out there, something true to who you are, and let that touch someone else.
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For all the puppy players - what breed do you relate to or imagine yourself to be? Is it reflective of your personality, or does it have qualities you aspire to? I would love to see side by side pics of pups and their chosen breed.
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Considering the lines between friendly, pushy and desperate. It is lovely to get a message from a friendly person, someone who is open, without insisting on anything. It is most unpleasant to read a message where someone is TELLING me to respond to them, begging for my attention. It could be basic manners, or it could be a sign of a person unable to control himself. Either way, insistence and desperation have no place in an introductory message. If you don't have anything interesting to say, then best to keep it short.
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Je ne veux pas travailler
Je ne veux pas déjeuner
Je veux seulement oublier
Et puis je fume
Je ne fume pas, mais j'adore ce chanson :)
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For the record, I believe everyone should follow their heart, and do what makes sense to them. Personally, I'm not interested in switches or sissies. These are just not things that fit my preferences. As always, I'm happy to converse with all kinds of people, if you have something of interest to say.
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FYI that is a vintage pic - no, I am not 112 years old
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New experiment proposed, to follow up on previously gathered data on boys who pose for their profile pics with a car:
Remove boy from his car and bind him to the nearest tree, where he has a good view of his car. Let him watch as a dominant woman slowly and meticulously defaces, dismantles and destroys his vehicle. Observe boy. Follow with interrogations.
Hypothesis: it is expected that the boy would break down emotionally as his symbolic/prosthetic sexual self is demolished, while concurrently becoming dependent on the woman who is now both destroyer of the old and creator of his new sexual self.
would he embrace the liberation and recreation?
or would he just press charges :)
so much work to do - in the name of science
feel free to share projections, observations, and relevant data
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what is the deal with boys posing next to their car?
So far the results of this highly unscientific poll point to cars as first, a supplement to an inferior penis and second a display of wealth meant to impress (and certain respondents indicated they felt it was likely the car did not even belong to the boy in those cases). Some also mentioned that boys like to show off their toys.
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"She seemed like such a sweet lady at first.... "
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I would like to thank the few that have read and understood what I wrote. The dialog is great. The respect you have shown shines back on you.
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