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MasterKJK
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My spouse reads my profile. I read his. I'll tell him all about you. I am not searching for a secret, but a potential family member. You might remain my responsibility; not having two masters, but your presence will not be a secret to him. Ever.
I don't see myself being anything but a dominant when it comes to a lifestyle D/s relationship. I simply enjoy pushing people to better themselves, to teach them helpful skills and lessons, and leading them too much to be submissive or even a switch. I enjoy owning my ship, and I'd love to own and sail my sub's as well. The most important thing to me in this relationship is control. I enjoy having it, and having it all, and making you feel very clearly that you have none while still being secure.
Couple that with how I love kinky play and you can begin to see not only the type of dominant I desire to be, but the kind of submissive I'm looking for as well. The thought of living with and training a human puppy or pony delights me, and I hope to relate with my sub the same way I relate with dogs and horses: a gentle firmness in getting them to give me what I want while looking out for their best interest. My training style is a combination of positive/negative reinforcement in that I set things up for my pet to succeed, to make training fun and exciting, but I won't tolerate bratty behavior or being blown off. In other words, you'll have fun learning how to sit, and it will remain fun until I have it ingrained in you how to sit. After I'm sure you know how to do it and there is no chance of forgetting, then you will be punished for not sitting when I say to.
I have a great deal of kinky creativity (not just pony/puppy play) that I would love to express with someone. Be my kinky canvas and let me explore things with you. Be forewarned: I love bondage. As in, I enjoy everything about it a lot. I get a big kick out of binding someone so they can't free themselves even if its something as simple and as discrete as a anklet that locks or a cage. I'm fine with taking this slow if you are timid or inexperienced. Being helpless can be frightening at first, but it helps if you're in hands that make it a pleasurable experience and progress slowly. If this isn’t something you like or can tolerate I’d still love to know you, but don’t expect things to go further than friendship.
I'm looking for people to hang out with, go hiking, catch a movie, walk around downtown, or whatever. Even if you are only seeking a play partner, I'd like to get to know you in person before we break out the ropes and chain.
I feed off curious people. I enjoy learning with someone almost as much as I enjoy teaching them. I love exploring, especially with a partner. Orientation on the D/s scale matters not.
As my name implies I am a tinkerer of sorts: I like to create and build things myself rather than buy them; be it a cedar strip canoe, a model steam engine, or a transistor radio. My creative tendencies do have a perverted side, and I can't count how many projects I think up of that include: "If I only had someone to use this with!" A pet would need to be my minion as well as my test vict-, er, subject. A play partner will need to have a spirit of adventure, but the role of either crazy co-engineer or test subject is flexible. All in all this means that you don’t have to be knowledgeable about my crafts, but if you are seeking a permanent relationship you should be at least mildly interested in them.
I have an awesome, active dog. I love her like a daughter, and similar to how I want to love my (human) pet... only I’m not kinky with my dog unless you count the collar and leash ;) If you don’t like dogs, don’t bother. Chances are, she'll be hanging around us a lot, relaxing in the background or begging you to pet her, as that's just what she does.
Now on to who you are: Most of this applies to you if you are looking for something long term. If you are simply seeking a play partner then I hope that which does not apply will be obvious. If you have any questions, please ask so I can make things more clear!
I want a man or woman who is ready for a D/s relationship with an intelligent, sane, mostly normal* man. I want to take the time to get to know you and for you to make sure you want this kind of relationship with me. If you become mine you can expect to be treated like a pet: wear a collar and being controlled in one way or another, have rules applied to you that apply to the other pets (ie, not allowed on the furniture unless invited), and kenneled or restrained when want you to be.
I want you to be interesting. If all you do or care about is movies, TV, and video games, we will have very little in common. At least enjoy reading or writing, or something like DnD. Something that requires more than the visual processing center of your brain and your thumbs to do. If you love the outdoors, especially canoeing and camping, bonus points.
Be flexible. There are times when my dog is just “hanging out” with me. I’m not actively being her master when she’s sleeping on the other side of the couch while I read a book. I dislike constant, heavy protocol. There are times when it is appropriate, and there are other times when anything more than a simple mindset gets in the way.
I want someone who can function as an adult. I shouldn't have to micromanage you on basic daily things. Asking for clarification or directions on something you don’t know is fine and expected. Having to explain daily all the steps on folding towels is not.
Like any close relationship, D/s relies on communication. Any slave/pet I have will need to be able to communicate with me if they want or need something. You might not get what you want all the time, but I will always value your input and want to know what's on your mind. I am not looking for a "thing". I want to own the whole shebang in part for the challenge. I can buy a doormat from walmart.
Last but not least - I want someone who is fun. We all have busy lives but if you can't let your hair down and get your hands in the dirt and make something, create something, love something, do something, have something - what are you living for?
Yes, it was a lot to read. Thank you for taking the time to actually go over the whole thing (even if you just skimmed it). If I snagged your interest, I'm looking forward to hearing from you.
*No warranty on normalcy. Conditions may apply. Namely your definition of "Normal". ;)
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Anyone ever try meditating while in bondage, or use sensory deprivation (To limit distractions until focusing the mind becomes easier) to assist in meditation?
In other news, my job has done a complete 180˚ turn and I'm now swamped with massive amounts of overtime. Careful what you wish for. If I'm slow in replying, please understand that its nothing personal, it's not that I don't care, and you arn't alone.
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Well, work seems to have dried up in Indianapolis for the time being. While I don't plan on completely uprooting everything again, it looks like it's time to seek greener pastures elsewhere. Right now that looks like Duluth, MN. |
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I am way too busy, and I don't even know with what. |
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Whoa, it's been awhile since I updated this. Back in Indy. Building a set of stocks. Will post pictures upon it's completion. |
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Company decided that they needed someone in what's almost Canada last minute. A few hours later I threw my tools in a tiny box, got on a plane, and now I'm here, kicking it Minnesota style! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x0z078OcLbM |
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Apparently when I updated my profile to explain my new orientation, it didn't update my orientation. Now its there. Profile explains it. |
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Finished week two of the new job, and so far I really like it. Much to my surprise, learning how this airline does maintenance has really made me feel better about flying with them, rather than the other way around. Not only is this job going to look great on a resume` and pay the bills, but I'm looking at learning a lot and really sharpening my skill to a whole new level.
I've also been doing a lot of thinking on what I want in BDSM, the roles I see myself enjoying filling, and am updating my profile to reflect some of the realizations I have come to.
EDIT: And now it's updated :) |
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The Chemistry final was a breeze. I felt really pumped up to hand it in a hour early, and everything seemed to come to me really easily. Next week I'll find out if I'm actually as smart as I think I am. |
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I tried out tracking with my dog yesterday evening. She caught on really fast and was very enthusiastic about the whole thing. I think this is a game we're going to play a lot! |
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Despite the rain I really feel like going for a bike ride... I need to make a small bike trailer so I can bring my dog with. She'd love it. |
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Good evening all! I'm feeling accomplished from work and there's left-over turkey in the fridge, so today turned out to be a fairly decent one. I also found a couple rolls of pallet wrap and duct tape, and oh how I would love to make someone wear them... |
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So the couch managed to work its way loose going across the causeway and fell out. I managed to go back and pick it up, but it definitely looks like it fell out of a truck doing 70. On the plus side, I found a fantastic place to build a dungeon. I'm looking forward to unleashing my perverted creative side. If I only had a non-expendable minion to use it on... |
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Looks like we'll be moving out near Bogalusa soon. It's a nice place, rural, and very private. We could really use a puppyboy/girl or a pony to take care of as well as lend a hoof. Any takers? |
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I love my wife. She is such an amazing woman. Happy Birthday Sweetheart! |
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Woo-hoo! I finally had the time to write my profile how I like it! |
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| Age: 48 |
| West Midlands,
United Kingdom |
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