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| Where do I begin...? I guess sharing my experiences is a good start... it'll let you know what I've done and looking for...
I'm not your typical dom; even though my last partner and I were regulars dabbling in the lifestyle, it never went past... I guess you can say, the "vanilla" stage of the lifestyle. If it floats your boat, you can simply consider me a man with dominant tendencies.
My partner and I weren't heavily involved in many of the activities such as bondage, pain infliction, humiliation; none of the more "hardcore" stuff in my opinion. Our encounters and mutual exploration involved more mental dominance; her submission to my will and my desires were mostly behind closed doors... but there have been numerous occasions in public, mainly in the car, where I have teased and commanded her to... bare her flesh.
She enjoyed being spanked, so I became rather well acquainted in that department. From my hand to leather paddles, and eventually to wooden ones, I've made her ass red and bruised on many an occasion. I also loved breasts, so a good part of my time were spent on them as well. I primarily used Clover nipple clamps on her and both she and I enjoyed it immensely. Towards the end of our relationship, we've discovered that she also had a thing for getting her nipple slapped on when she's near climax. In the end, let's just say that I've manhandled her breasts a fair deal...
Words are powerful, and I've been rather careful with them. I don't have, and never will, use words that in my opinion degrades women. The "worst" I've ever called my previous partner was, a "slave". I will not use the words "whore", "slut", "cunt" (and other words of the sort) on you as a means to humiliate you and to make you submit. So if you are looking for something more... colorful... then I am not the one for you.
I am looking for someone that is not seeking to submit through "abuse" and/or "pain", but through the inherent desire to relinquish control to someone else, someone that she will learn to trust of her own accord. So no, I am not looking to beat you into submission... I am looking to coerce you through other means... mainly my sweet, but commanding words and silk like voice. Hahahaha...
I'm also not looking for someone that wants to be "taken care of" in the financial and/or materialistic means. You're a grown woman for crying out loud; have at least the dignity to not rely on a man to feed, cloth, and house you. To me, women like that aren't really submitting to the man, but to the man's wealth. Personally, I don't believe the two go hand in hand, but that's just my opinion. And no, I don't care if you take this as me being "cheap"; I am a "need" comes before "want" kind of person. Though I would from time to time, gift you with things that you like... be it a simple bottle of local wine or a porcelain bracelet. Besides, there are plenty of financially well off women that adores this lifestyle and am a submissive at heart.
The submission of my potential partner is a never ending process; in other words, resistance from you should be a constant, though minimal. For example... whenever I commanded you to do something, a slew of possibilities may arise. On certain days... you may resist me, telling me "no" which would require me to seek other ways to reinforce my command, such as pulling on your hair, or a session of light spanking, or even manhandling your breasts for a bit. Then there are those days where you would simply drop to your knees and do exactly what I say... The idea here is to cycle through the possibilities and keep things... spontaneous.
I don't want you to simply submit and be done with it; I don't want to give you a set of schedule to follow and do it precisely on the dot; I don't want you to drop to your knees every time when I ask you to service me.
What I DO want is to relish in the sensation of triumph; triumph over you, again and again... just as you relish in the feeling of being conquered and taken... over and over...
I am NOT looking to live this life 24/7; to me this is "alternative" lifestyle. I still enjoy much of the "normal" life that I currently lead. I'm still a hopeless romantic at heart and would very much like to fall in love with the right woman. Some of the activities that I enjoy include, but are not limited to: movies, bowling, karaoke, bookstores, flea markets, food, roleplaying, and the list goes on.
I hope you enjoyed your time reading my long profile... now expect to see me in the depths of your darkened dreams... -insert evil laugh-
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