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Timberontop

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Hello, I'm Timber. I've not been into kink very long, but I've been voracious in my acquisition of knowledge and play, and loving every minute of it! I am a straight but flexible (i.e. bi-curious) biological female, and I definitely identify as a Top and a Domme (and have my own definitions of how those two things differ.) Thus far the extent of my experience ranges to more academic pursuits and public play parties, but I’m hoping working through this website can broaden my range of experience to more at-home one on one play.

In light of that, I'm primarily looking for submissive males or females who are interested in service of a Domme (sexual and otherwise), impact play, and attending social events with me as my sub. You must be willing to do very in-depth negotiations, including exchanging emails, IMs, and meeting in a public place without the possibility of play before progressing to play or sex. Safe sane and consensual is of paramount importance to me, and since I'm still relatively new, I am intensely observant of safety standards. If you're coming to play with me, you will not have any alcohol or drugs in you or on you. Non-smokers are also preferred. You must be single or, if you’re in a relationship, it needs to be an open one where all partners are transparent about their activities.

I'm relatively fit, but I'm 6'1 and proportionately so. I'm tall, thick, and curvy. I'm also dedicated to my own comfort and dress accordingly. Don't bother messaging me if you only want tiny-waisted, thin, covered in makeup and wearing leather corsets all the time. That is perfectly fine, but it’s not me. I don’t need corsets to be Dominant, and I’d rather be comfortable.

Most of all, I want someone who is open to making a real connection. Someone who has the time to be a consistent play partner with the possibility of being friends with benefits as well. I can be a sadistic top, but mostly I’m in it for the power exchange, for the quite moments that zip along all your nerve endings and tell you that something very precious has been offered and accepted in a mutual pursuit of fulfilling and intense play and sex. I’m not looking for a serious or singular commitment. I want to be involved with people that are open to polyamory, but also agree that the more experience we have together as play partners and fuck buddies, the better it can get. Really, the only commitment I’m asking for is your truthfulness, openness and your time.

I do want to hear about your fetishes, but I also need to know your limits, your (physical, mental, and emotional) needs, and your expectations. You need to have figured these things out before you ask to meet me, or are at least open to the idea of discovering these things through conversation. I’d also like someone who is willing to grow with me, to experiment, research, try new things in the pursuit of experiencing everything the BDSM scene has to offer and generally growing as people and as members of the BDSM community.

Otherwise, pretty much anything goes. I might not be willing to partake of every fetish out there, but I am open to hearing about it and discussing it.

If you’re intelligent, interesting, and ready to make a connection with someone, even if it’s just friendly, then drop me a line. Don’t forget to put the words Firefly and Lynx rufus somewhere in your message so that I know you actually read my profile. Major bonus points if you can relate to those two terms in any way, as they are hobbies of mine. I will respond to every message, even if it's with a respectful "no thanks," but I'm not going to take you seriously if you don't include those words to show you were interested enough to actually read all the way to the bottom of my profile. I can guarantee, if you have those words in your message to me, I will be certain to read all the way to the bottom of yours.

Later Days!

Timber

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4/13/2010 3:27:26 PM
Again, thank you all for the wonderful response. A few points I should clear up... I am not looking to Domme for money nor be financially Dominant of you. If you message me, make SURE you read my ENTIRE profile and show me you can follow instructions. Thanks Kinksters!

4/2/2010 9:51:54 AM
Just added an additional photo to my profile. A few days ago, after a particularly delightful session, I was cleaning my toys and thought Damn, that would be an awfully colorful picture. Enjoy :)

4/1/2010 3:13:36 PM
http://quizfarm.com/quizzes/Sex/poeticthinker/do-you-have-an-inclination-for-bdsm/

Found a link to this quiz on and couldn't resist! It's got some fun results, but also, it's really informative. Look carefully at the questions, how they're worded and the specific ones they chose... it gives a decent dose of insight into how the vanilla world views BDSM.

Here are my results and my thoughts on them at the bottom, let me know how you did!

You Scored as Dominant

Sex is about power and you like to be powerful. It's nice to be in charge and get what you want. And being in a position where people will do what you say is exciting.

Dominant - 89%
Sadist - 79%
Experimental - 79%
Switch - 75%
Exhibitionist/Voyeur - 65%
Bondage - 29%
Masochist - 18%
Submissive - 18%
Degredation Lover - 14%
Vanilla - 7%

I know for a fact that I'm not a switch, so I think they confuse the idea of a "switch" with someone who is willing to try anything. Bondage should be waaaaay higher for me, but they have very few questions that ask how much you like to put others in bondage versus the tons of questions they ask about how much you like being in bondage. I think I scored as low as you can on the bottom three because it's true all the way down to my toes, I'm not submissive, nor a degredation lover, nor vanilla. Anyhow, it was a fun little thing to do, enjoy!

3/26/2010 8:43:04 AM
Hello, first, I must say, the response has been lovely and encouraging, thank you kinksters! Secondly, I don't friend people that I've not met. I'd be open to conversing with anyone that finds my profile interesting enough to message me about it, but I reserve the circle of friends for people I've met real-time. Thanks!

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jeffsmith077
 
 Age: 40
 Olin, North Carolina