I'm here looking for a playmate (and maybe more?) and not on a vanilla dating site because quite simply, being Dominated and sexually happy is much more important to me than whether we both like the Natural History Museum or if you like spicy food or not; But since we can't have sex 24/7, it'd be nice if you do like museums and spicy food. I also love kayaking, hiking, eating decadent meals (and consequently working out daily), collecting rocks and fossils, and I'm a voracious reader.

OK.....

Realistically, I'd like to be an always willing, very obedient sex slave. Two things I picture are one, whenever you sat in a certain chair, I'd stop whatever I'm doing, go over, kneel and go down on you. Sometimes in my fantasies, you'd ask for this in front of someone and/or you'd expect me to treat your friend sitting in the chair the same way. Second, I'd like to have training days - so say, every Wednesday at 7 we'd perfect my deep throat technique, etc. (I'm very orally fixated, giving it not receiving it)

This is what's hard to say, but I guess I'd like to be sexually used. I love the thought of roughness, taking orders, kneeling and waiting, bondage, and spankings, pain. I'd also like to take orders from a distance, much like in Secretary where she ate exactly how many peas her boss told her too.

In public, I'm reserved, so while I'd also like to be told to dress slutty, that'd happen only in places where no one knew us. Discretion is crucial as well so if you're into the quite open and quite "proud" local swingers scene ... we'd probably not mesh.

If a LTR relationship were to evolve, I'd like to try being submissive on all levels, ie , a 50's household. In my career, I tend to feel like the only thinking person and it'd be nice to turn that off at home and focus on pleasing a man. No just sexually but by making sure he's comfortable, fed his favorite foods, his sock drawer is in order and that he feels, or quite simply IS, King of the home.

Now in my fantasies ... I fantasize about orally servicing more than one man, sometimes while my Master holds my leash... serving as a sub in a threesome with my Master and another woman, and the woman sometimes is bossy, sometimes submissive; the thought of being told what to do to a woman by a man is really arousing...