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“Some people believe holding on and hanging in there are signs of great strength. However, there are times when it takes much more strength to know when to let go and then do it.”
―Ann Landers
I recently relocated to Chicago from Seattle for a wonderful career opportunity.
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For those that don't appreciate that life, and this lifestyle are a journey, I can assure you it is!
My animal totem is very definitely a Tiger: Raw energy, hunger, unpredictable, generous, strong protective instincts, powerful. I love to claw, bite and growl when I am feeling the energy flow.
I am the owner of the house Casa_de_Tigre. We are always looking for like minded kinky folks to join us on our journey. Currently, I am looking for play partners, sexual toys and domestic servants willing to serve in any manner of ways - but understanding your needs and wants is very important. Consent is CRITICAL.
Ideally, we would find a small group of open-minded, non-judgmental kinksters, and have a blast together. That could include play, vanilla activities, and under the right conditions, sex.
I tend to be quiet in group situations until I get more comfortable, but once I do, I am no longer shy to share my thoughts and opinions.
The path I have chosen in this lifestyle is a Master/slave dynamic, and I identify more as a Daddy. For me, a slave is often a strong, dynamic individual in their own right. But they make a conscious choice to serve, to obey and follow the Master. A Daddy doesn't imply age-play, but it doesn't mean it can't either!
I believe a Daddy is someone that:
-Is a very nurturing and supportive figure, often appearing Daddy-like in how that is accomplished
-Seeks to ensure a slave's physical, social, emotional, spiritual and financial growth and success.
-Provides training, direction, guidance, correction and even punishment as required.
-Provides the play and learning opportunities necessary for the slave to succeed.
Being a Daddy can be tough - it doesn't mean that you will always like me for it, especially in the moment. My primary role is to help you become a better person, often by sharing in your successes, but also by holding you accountable when needed.
Individual accountability is a very important for me.
A big part of my path, and for anyone that travels it with me, is education, self-improvement and community involvement. For me, without having the self-awareness, knowledge and understanding behind the mental and physical acts we perform makes those acts risky, and subject to luck more than I am comfortable.
Therefore, I will try to learn as much as I can, and often go to the same sessions over and over to pick up on what I have missed, and to gain the insight shared by other people in attendance.
Over the past decade+, so many have offered me assistance, knowledge, instruction, guidance and shared their wisdom. Therefore, giving back to others is huge for me and my family. Also, this self-improvement has allowed me to become a much better person, especially over this last 18 months since my life turned upside down. I wish I had learned some of these lessons a long time ago.
Perhaps in time I will begin to teach in public event, but for now, I share what I have learned in small group events, munches and individually.
Having lived in 5 major cities and traveling to several others for events, I have gotten a pretty broad perspective of this lifestyle across the country. I have attended classes, seminars and even weekend training with some incredible instructors in an effort to live an authentic life and to be the best person possible. Each and every day I learn, and I look for those around me to help me on that path.
I have been in open poly-sexual relationships of some sort or another for over a decade, with the last 7 years in polyamorous relationships. These relationships have truly challenged me to have a better understanding of my feelings and how I can be a better partner to the ones I care for.
I am steadfastly loyal to those I bring into my life, and commit myself to them completely. So while I may play casually with a number of different people, I only allow those that I have a strong connection with to get close to me emotionally.
I am VERY KINKY – so my play and interests are EXTREMELY VARIED. So I am always looking for someone that wants to push the limits on things.
I am learning I can be a heavy sadist, both physically and emotionally. However, I can also be a sensualist. Or, it can include a heavy degradation/humiliation aspect to it, or include edge/taboo play. I am experienced enough to know that I have very few limits, although children, diaper fetishes, vomit, very heavy blood play, and scat are definitely on that list.
For me, so much of my personal enjoyment is about the response I elicit from my bottom and the circular energy flow that exists in a scene. I thrive in play filled with energy and intensity, and we both walk away tired and very satisfied.
Point is, I LOVE IT ALL. I am usually receptive to a broad variety of partners outside of a D/s or M/s dynamic: pain slut, sensualist, fuck toy, sensation pig, humiliation pig, etc. If you have a unique desire or interest, give me a shout!
I am well educated, stay well-informed in the world, and really enjoy conversations before and after the fun. I also love to laugh and have a great time so we can enjoy all that life has to offer.
I can't share face pics on this site - but I am willing to do so via IM or email.
Thanks to those that took the time to read all this!
Please shoot me a note and let me welcome you to the Jungle!
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