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i'm a newbie to this lifestyle (i have no real time experience). i'm in search of a True lifestyle FemDom (preferably a single lesbian Woman, but a single bisexual Woman is fine too). i do not seek to serve a couple in any way shape or form! i only wish to serve One Mistress. Someone to Whom i can devote my life in loving service, thereby fulfilling my destiny. i don't know how i can be any clearer than this. i am not looking for online play per se but a real time relationship with real time experience. for the right Mistress i'd like to take things in baby steps at first. once trust is established, i'd be willing to do anything to please Her. in my humble opinion, it is only natural for me to want to please the Woman of my dreams. i would do a LDR if i had to but it is not what i seek - i am not looking for a U-Haul relationship and move in together right away... maybe have my own place near Her until W/we both know things will work out - then possibly a LTR. it is hard enough going from meeting Someone online to real time, no less the pressure of relocating and going into a 24/7 relationship - don't You think?

i have many things that i can bring to any relationship. anything built on trust takes time. only time will tell. i will not agree to any type of relationship other than F/friendship online and i will not submit until trust is established! only after meeting face-to-face can W/we see if there is a mutual connection. once W/we both see W/we are exactly who W/we claim to be, can i know if i am willing to offer any type of service. i am truly a genuine, honest, down-to-earth person. i truly have a pure heart - which is my best asset and sometimes my biggest downfall. in time E/everyone will see and know the truth. i have no problem meeting Anyone and proving i am exactly who i say i am - are You?

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5/17/2014 1:49:19 AM

~ new pic posted ~


10/27/2013 10:51:30 AM

~bought a new webcam online. will post a new pic soon. happy early birthday to me!~


1/1/2011 11:56:14 AM



~ If W/we can't meet in real life then let's not waste each O/other's time.... ~ i'm only interested in reality!!!! ~


9/14/2010 7:34:49 PM
~ Moving to my own place tomorrow! ~

12/9/2009 9:37:19 PM
~ Life is not about being right ~ it's about doing the right thing. In the words of George Orwell, "During times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act." ~ Actions are the fruit of all truth, it is by your words you may be heard, but by your actions you will be judged....

9/25/2009 9:22:01 PM

the following 4 files i have copy pasted were given to me years ago by Someone very special to me Who died in 2007. i post them here as a reminder to myself and as a statement to O/others.
in order for the format to stay in tact it needs to be viewed from my profile.

the submissive's rights....
 
i have the right to set limits, and expect them to be respected.

i have the right to trust, providing i have earned it.

i have the right to expect You to believe i am an intelligent, caring and loyal person.

i have the right to ask for Your attention, without having to misbehave to get it.

i have the right to expect You to administer Your punishment on me with care and caution.

i have the right to question Your motives, should You deny my requests, as long as i do so with the proper respect.

i have the right to speak up if i feel O/our relationship is not giving me what i need. i have the right to tell You what i need in a respectful manner.

i have the right to expect You to understand my reasons for doing so, and the right to expect You to listen with an open mind and heart.

i have the right to walk away from O/our relationship if W/we cannot come to a common ground on these issues.

i have the right to expect tenderness, love and understanding after a scene is completed, should it be what i desire.

i have the right to ask You for that tenderness if i've had a bad day, or if i just feel the need for closeness, i understand that there will be times when You and i will disagree about this when You will want a scene and i will not.

i have the right to voice my opinion, and expect You to listen to and consider my reasoning, i expect You to have final word, but i expect You to wholeheartedly consider my feelings, whatever they may happen to be.

i have the right to expect You to understand that deep trust often breeds love, and i expect You not to repel me if i tell You that i love You. For my Mistress i will love You, should O/our relationship move ahead, should O/our trust continue to grow.

i have the right to expect You to tell me, at any point, if You do not feel You can return those feelings, so that i may decide what i want and need. For it is Your pleasure that adds to my own, and makes it real, And mine, that adds to Yours!


the submissive's creed....

i will communicate with complete honesty my needs, desires, limits, and experience. i realize that failing to do so will not only prevent my Mistress and i from having the best experience possible, but can also lead to physical and emotional harm. i will not try to manipulate my Mistress. i will not push to make a scene go the way i feel it should. i will keep an open mind about trying things that i am not accustomed to or comfortable with and expanding my limits. i will continue to grow as a submissive and as a human being.

i will accept the responsibility of discovering what pleases my Mistress, and will do my best to fulfill Her wishes and desires. i will not allow myself to be harmed or abused, i know that submissive does not equal "doormat".

i will be courteous and helpful to my fellow submissives, i will share my knowledge and experiences with others in the hope that they will learn from where i have been i will take the time to help those new to the scene start out on the correct path.

i will be responsive to my Mistress, i will not try to hide what my mind and body are feeling so that i may assist Her in Her responsibilities as my Authority, i know that Dommes are not telepathists, and will not expect my Mistress to know thoughts or feelings which i do not share.

i will never think myself a "better" submissive because i choose to submit on a different level than another. i will not be boastful of experiences i have had as a sub. i know that my actions reflect upon my Mistress, and will do my best to help others see Her in a positive way. i will not intentionally embarrass or displease my Mistress.

above all, i will wear my title of submissive with honor. i will never cause others to think that being submissive means to be weak or subhuman. i will take pride in who and what i am, and will never show myself in a negative way.


the slaves prayer....

allow me the strength to answer questions i can't fathom....

allow me the spirit to know Her needs....

allow me the kindness to choke back retorts....

allow me the serenity to serve Her in peace....

allow me the love to show Her in peace....

allow me the tenderness to comfort Her....

allow me the light to show U/us the way....

allow me the wisdom to be an asset to Her....

let me be able to show Her each day my love by my service to Her....

let me open myself up to completely belong to Her....

let my eyes show Her each day my love by my service to Her....

let me open myself up to completely belong to Her....

let my eyes show Her the same respect, whether i sit at Her side, or kneel at Her feet....

let me accept my punishment with the grace of a woman....

let me learn to please Her, beyond myself....

grant me the power to give myself to Her completely....

give me the strength to please U/us both....

permit me to love myself, in loving Her....

allow me the peace of serving Her....

For it is my greatest wish, my highest power to make Her life complete, as She makes mine.



The Mistresses Creed....


Above all else She cherishes Her slave, in the knowledge that the gift she gives Her is the greatest gift of all. She is demanding and takes full advantage of the power given to Her, but knows how to share the pleasure that comes from that precious gift.

She is in control of Herself first and foremost, so that She may control others. As a stern and demanding Mistress, She can cause Her slave to cry real tears. As the consummate lover, She will then kiss the tears away, without stepping out of character.

In times of trouble, a Mistress will leave the roles behind, to be a supportive friend and Partner, never forgetting that this is still a loving relationship between two caring individuals.

She is quick to understand the differences between fantasy and reality. She would never ask a slave to put Her before her career, or family, just to satisfy Her own pleasure. To win Her slave's mind, body, spirit, soul, and love, She knows She must first win her trust. She will show Her slave humor, kindness, and warmth. She must always show her that Her guidance and tutoring is knowledgeable and deserving of her attention, that this is a Woman she can learn from, and trust Her direction.

She is romantic enough to be protective and chivalrous. When called upon, She will fight for Her lady's honor. She proves to her that She is someone she can lean on, and depend on.

When it comes time to teach Her slave her lessons of obedience, She is a strong and unyielding professor. She will accept no flaw, nothing less than perfection from Her student. Never does She use discipline without a good reason. When She does it is always with a knowledgeable and careful hand.

She is always open to communication and discussion, always ready to hear her wants and needs. She is patient, taking time to learn her limits, and knowing that as her trust of Her grows so will T/they. She never has to demand ritual behavior by her. she responds to Her out of the want of pleasing Her. Compliance comes from the wanting to please, not the fear of punishment. She understands the fragile nature of mind and body and never violates the trust given to Her.

She is secure enough to laugh at Herself and the absurdities of life. Open minded enough to learn new things and strong enough to grow. Her tools are mind, body, spirit, soul, and love. She understands that each partner gains most from pleasuring the other. And both of T/them know that love and trust are the only bindings that truly hold.


(this is what i was taught from the beginning a M/s relationship is supposed to be or could be.... i realize relationships vary depending on the P/people involved and the limits and boundaries that are agreed upon before a collar is offered or accepted.)

9/20/2009 8:39:38 AM

only seeking "real People" Who are local, Who can actually meet, or People Who travel Who can and are willing to relocate ~ i can relocate eventually but not at this time ~ additionally i am not willing to discuss relocation or submit at all without meeting and establishing trust. i'm not trying to Top from the bottom but i cannot be expected to submit without first establishing trust, so please do not expect nor ask me... ~ not to be rude in any way, but meeting weeds out the fakes, posers and whack-jobs. real P/people are not afraid to show up *smiles* whereas fakes, posers and whack-jobs fade away....

8/13/2009 5:39:34 PM


a person's word - character, reputation and integrity still mean something - i know mine does to me !!!!


6/3/2008 2:11:09 AM
What i desire most…. 1) meet the Woman of my dreams. 2) have such a strong connection with Her that my soul aches when i am not in Her presence. Like an unquenchable thirst or insatiable hunger from the very depths of my inner most being. When i cannot not be with Her, every fiber of my being cries out to be near Her. 3) the feeling i get when i think of ways to please Her occupies my thoughts every waking hour. 4) the feeling of gratitude for every breath, and for simply being alive knowing She knows my inner-most desire to be Hers. 5) to be accepted, protected, nurtured, loved and cherished for simply being me, no more, no less....and know i can always be myself and not judged. in return i vow complete service, love, devotion, loyalty and respect. that connection, chemistry and level of trust i seek breeds the strongest passion. when i find this - i will know i have found what it is i have been seeking all my life.

10/11/2007 3:38:37 AM
~"Speechless" by the Veronicas~ feels like i have always known You and i swear i dreamt about You all those endless nights i was alone it's like i've spent forever searching now i know that it was worth it with You it feels like i am finally home falling head over heels thought i knew how it feels but with You it's like the first day of my life 'cause You leave me speechless!!!! when You talk to me You leave me breathless!!!! the way You look at me You manage to disarm me my soul is shining through can't help but surrender my everything to You!!!! i thought i could resist You i thought that i was strong somehow You were different from what i've known i didn't see You coming You took me by surprise and You stole my heart before i could say no falling head over heels thought i knew how it feels but with You it's like the first day of my life You leave me speechless!!!! when You talk to me You leave me breathless!!!! the way You look at me You manage to disarm me my soul is shining through i can't help but surrender Oh no my everything to You!!!! You leave me speechless!!!! (the way You smile, the way You touch my face) You leave me breathless!!!! (it's something that you do i can't explain) i run a million miles just to hear You say my name Baby You leave me speechless!!!! You leave me breathless!!!! the way You look at me You manage to disarm me my soul is shining through i can't help but surrender my everything to You!!!!

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submarie4dom
 
 Age: 37
 Bristol, United Kingdom