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Hetero Female Submissive, 26,  San Diego, California
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Thisgirlobeys22 - submissive

Thisgirlobeys22 - photo 1

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I am a sexy bbw sub! My journey in bdsm so far has been great! I have met great people and have learned so much! I still have so much to learn and I am eager to do so! I am naturally submissive sexually! This is what ultimately brought me to discover bdsm! I enjoy being a sub and I'm looking forward to hearing from you Sir!

While I don't discriminate black men are a super duper ++plus++ Lol

I've always said that I had no limits well just being on collarme has shown me that I do lol I'm not into hair pulling (I get my hair done!! lol), children, fire, knives, blood, race play, or public play.These are all hard limits! Anything other than that Im completely open minded and willing to explore! :)

WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be
considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this.










Last Online:


 Submissive Female

 San Diego 


 5' 7"



 African Descent



Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

Friends Only

A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 Musical Theater



 Anal Play


 Massage (Getting)





 Pop Music



 Amusement Parks

 Fine Dining






 Obedience Training


 Orgasm Denial


 Art Galleries

 Bar Hopping


 Flea Markets

 Going to the Opera



 Body Worship

 Breast Play

 Corner Time






 Foot Worship

 Curious About:


 Canes and Crops


 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Local BDSM Community

 Knife Play


 Vacuum Stimulation

 Wax play


 Hard Limits:

 Electrical Play


 Fire Play

 Hair Pulling

 Needle Play

 Public Play

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Journal Entries:
8/17/2014 12:38:15 PM
I am no longer under consideration. Happy searching ~Girl~

5/10/2014 9:47:20 AM
I haven't really been on here in a while and that is because I am under consideration with an amazing Dom!! I am lucky that he is open minded and still let's me log on here to have conversations! I'm mainly just logging on so I can talk to people that I've made friends with on here! It's always good to talk to a friend! :) Happy searching ~Girl~

12/7/2013 12:00:46 PM

This a very recent reply to a Dom that wrote me after he read my profile.... He questioned the fact that if I was an alpha woman why wouldn't I just be a Domme (which is a valid question) here's my reply:

This is very true I'm really starting to find myself in bdsm even though I don't like labels  you can't really get away with not having a label in this community lol at first it was a slave which really didn't feel right for me!! Then I moved to being a sub which was a pretty comfortable spot for me... I had a thought about if I was a switch and how contradicting it is and how ppl wouldn't take me serious if I said I like both and then I remembered that it's just like me being bi and if I enjoy both women and men then why couldn't I be a switch lol I had an ahhh-haaa moment lol.... But I chalked it up to just a thought it wasn't until another guy wrote me and said just about the same thing as you, and that I sound like a Domme, that I really gave it thought! Lol...... I haven't been in this lifestyle too long but how do people perceive switches in the community is it frowned upon?

Anyone is welcome to answer my question :)
Happy Searching

12/6/2013 3:26:40 PM

You can say that I'm quite irritated at the fact that there aren't a lot of men, particularly black men, who like black women on this site!! Were not all the same you know... It's interesting to me because we all enjoy kink and to enjoy kink one must be open minded to explore but yet some people turn around and are so closed minded! It doesn't really make sense to me.... A sub that is a perfect fit for you could be the race you've written off on your page!!!..... Someone please explain it to me! (I'm open for a discussion lol)

Happy searching



11/30/2013 8:17:31 AM

Since my name is thisgirlobeys22 I get so many messages giving me orders! Lol But the thing that people fail to realize is that if I followed everyone's request I'd prob. be running around with my head cut off lol! My screen name is reflective on when I have a master!! Plus if I do everything for everybody I wouldn't be saving anything special for the man I serve! :) Please keep that in mind when your request goes on def ears Doms! 

Happy searching 

~ Girl ~

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