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Hetero Male Submissive, 30,  Ontario Canada, Canada
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New here! I love alternative rock, a good book, great conversation and people who expand my mind. I try my best to live in the moment and enjoy the glass of red in my hand, the evening air on my skin, the company of new friends, and relish the anticipation of something more. I'm still exploring on my kinky journey. So far, I know I'm more submissive than dominant. To put it plainly, I see the appeal of being taken, had, owned, confined, and possessed :P Silent sensuality appeals to me, while attention seeking strangers tend not to. But I'm very much exploring and curious to try almost anything! Outside of kink, I enjoy a lot of regular things, but cand tend a (little) geeky. Ask me what I'm playing at any given time, and I'll be sure to shoot you a laundry list. Happily single, and not necessarily looking to jump into anything without first seeing if we can connect outside of kink. I want to love your company! In the end, I'd love to connect with likeminded folk - send me a message! Tell me:
  • Something you've learned about yourself recently
  • A hard earned truth
  • Something you'd like to know about me












 Submissive Male

 Ontario Canada 


 Willing to Relocate

 6' 1"






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Switch Women



 Coffee Shops


 You tying me up

 Being allowed to wear your collar

 You putting me on a leash

 Mental Bondage

 Being allowed to service you orally

 You using a strap-on on me

 Cooking for you





 Being allowed to beg you for things

 Being blindfolded

 Being placed in a cage by you

 Rear End Play

 Being gagged by you

 Being allowed to do all of the housework

 Being humiliated by you

 Being allowed to give you massages

 Being allowed to be obedient to you


 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Being spanked by you

 You telling me when I'm allowed to speak

 Being allowed to see you in stockings





 Intellectual Discourse

 Liberal Politics

 Eighties Music

 EMO Music

 New Age Music

 Nineties Music

 Punk Rock Music

 Curious About:



 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Foot Worship

 Female Led Relationships

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