I have been in the lifestyle many years now and would class myself as a loving Dominant. I don't hanker after a pain slut - I am much more of a Daddy Dom really, very protective and patient. I want my girl to shine and I will do my utmost to ensure she does. I want to take her deep into her fantasies and let her explore safe in the knowledge that I will protect her from any harm or hurt.

I would enjoy meeting local people as friends (and occasional playmates if the chemistry works). I am more than willing to chat and would love to get to know other locals and even meet up. I am not afraid of meeting people (unlike so many on here).

It is only fair to tell you that I am passionately in love with a submissive from Wales. I have known her and loved her for 4 years now... but our lives are complicated. No.. no spouses on the scene.. just families and jobs and lives. She is complicated and fun, bright and difficult.. all in the same delightful package... but damn she frustrates the hell out of me! And she knows it. One day she will finally submit and take my collar - she knows it and I know it, but it just isnt yet! Women.. can't live without them... can't make them submit when you want them to!

sadly above is only a dream, may be not ...watch this space

I wish you all luck in your search. Don't be afraid to drop me a line - I will always reply.