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thinking its about time to walk away from this place... Far too many people who aren't who they say they are. I need to start filling my life with something real. It seems like the majority of the people here investor time manipulating as many people as possible |
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had a girl block me this evening because apparently telling her that you like a profile is apparently equal to in marriage proposal... Yes I see that you prefer girls... I didn't proposition you... Some people are funny |
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tss had a submissive tell me that several of the online dominants dismissed her because apparently she needed the dominant traits trained out of her... I'm sorry, but even saying it is ludicrous to me. Its not her fault you are not suited for her. Apparently, there are some people out there that can't take responsibility for the fact that they cannot fulfill their role as a dominant.
it's not your job to train anything out of anyone if you are a dominant... It's your job to find compatibility and work with it. There isn't something wrong with a submissive simply because you are incapable of realizing that you are not compatible with them.
nothing scares me more about this lifestyle than the online community. There are simply some very ill equipped people out there that should not be fulfilling a role so important. Impressionable people get hurt |
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tss had a submissive tell me that several of the online dominants dismissed her because apparently she needed the dominant traits trained out of her... I'm sorry, but even saying it is ludicrous to me. Its not her fault you are not suited for her. Apparently, played arms |
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I enjoyed my week off... vacation in California was amazing... I enjoyed the foothills and the delicious wine... Now I'm back to the grindstone... |
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PPeople who expect you to behave a certain way without earning respect weather submissive or dominant don't deserve your time...
You gotta love these posts that state that people have to jump through certain hoops to be acceptable in their eyes. That's ludicrous. As a matter of fact that twisted sense of entitlement is really what is wrong with our society today. |
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So a person who chooses to wait to reveal a picture until they know someone is hiding? Smart and intelligent people who happened to be professionals have every right to be prudent. In today's society with all of these spoofing and faking and cat fishing that is going on how is it considered unintelligent to be prudent? BDSM in the lifestyle is a big enough to risk in society today. Putting yourself out there unnecessarily for posers to take advantage of you isn't edgy... Its really not all that intelligent.
Of course all of you people who accuse me of hiding I can assure you that your first experience with an online predator will change your mind. |
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I am officially tired of snow this year! I want to warm up... Bring on the heat! |
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Okay, what is it about feet that seems to work for people? I don't get it at all. |
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I got a response today from someone saying that I must be a fake because I won't show a picture... No, I want to show you a picture because I don't trust you yet... Just because you might be submissive doesn't mean that you aren't batshit crazy... Just sayin |
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So, do you think that's the reason that I don't post my picture it's because I'm a fake? Do you think that there might be a possibility that there is a person of professional status that might just want to be a little bit careful?
Maybe I don't feel like everybody that is on the sites should have access to who I am. It doesn't mean that I intend to live shrouded within the anonymity of what exists here. I just may not trust you yet.
So take the time to get to know me... Let me show you what it's like to really feel something special. I look forward to getting to know someone with enough depth that patience will bring great reward. |
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girls, I just want to let you know that pictures of your ass bruised and battered is not a good selling point for you. Especially if its big jiggly thing that wouldn't be something you'd want to reveal if it were in mint condition. Just saying. |
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am I the only man on this site that is much more attracted to a picture that is creative and classy then too someone who is blatantly naked? does that make me old fashioned? I don't think so... I suppose I want someone who is interested in giving themselve to me.
just my opinion I suppose |
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it would really be nice to find somebody in this mess of course self esteem issues... And fakers...
are there seriously and a real prospects out there? |
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It's funny... The more I read the profiles of ladies on here it is getting a little easier to realize just how ridiculous some of these fake profiles are. Also, it reminds me of how dangerous a place the Internet can be. |
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looking forward to 2014...my life is wide open... So bring on the opportunities! |
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Post Divorce celebration will be on tonight. Waxy's In Branson |
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Divorce finalized yesterday... Something about that makes me want to celebrate. Was a long ugly divorce, and I am so ready to move on. |
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So, seems I got blocked for telling someone I actually cared about their well being.... Danm, excuse me. God forbid I give a crap... |
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Hmmmm, I am noticing a direct correlation between my Sadistic tenancies and and time spent with my Ex Wife.....
One of those days.... |
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So many angry submissives... What have these fellas been doing to you...?
Somehow I would imagine it's more of a two way street... Hearing the way that the anger transforms into rant... Hearing things demanded as if any man in his right mind can approach that anyway but defensively. Sure men are often stupid... but Really, is it worth scaring off the potential diamond because you are so busy yapping at the coal?
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Some times I think... Why would you put that picture up and leave yourself open for...
And then I realize that humiliation is a category that some look for... |
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For the record..
I am not your last Dom(me), Boyfriend, Girlfriend, Daddy, Husband, Priest, Therapist, or Indian Chief.
What you experienced with them will not be the same experience that you will have with me. Don't holde responsible for what happened in your past. You aren't the only one who stands to be hurt in a relationship. I consider carefully and I didn't choose you because you looked like easy prey. I chose to speak with you because I had some respect for what you had to say.
I am not the dill weed who beat you or took advantage of your heart. However I do care ir I wouldn't have engaged you to begin with. I don't listen because I am weak; I simply might actually care.
Enough Said |
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So now I am getting blocked and ignored by people who aren't adult enough to either feel things all the way through or just say that they aren't feeling it.
It annoys me when grown ups can't be Adults.
I know Doms are supposed to be strong, and my will and resolve are. I don't shield my heart because it makes me less of a Man. I refuse to live without feeling. I want to know what points to push and without feeling I am numb.
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I know this one is going to open up a can of worms, but I am going to statew this as a standard opinion. When your submissive wakes you up to get online and defend her honor, you may want to just read this instead.
I saw a note in a Journal from a Submissive that says, "If you do not have an updated profile when you message me then you are dead to me." Am I the only one who finds that suspect? I am sorry, I simply see a red flag there.
I am not saying that if you burned a bra in the 60's that was a bad thing. (Bra burning has it's place... A campfire by a lake perhaps ) I am saying if you are going to tell me how I need to be chances are I won't be messaging you anyway. Confidence is one thing, attitude in a message like that shows basic insecurity.
Enough said. |
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All I ask anyone that they walk the talk they preach through their profile.... Just sayin... |
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Wow, so many people after the first message give out a hotmail email address . Seems they say the same thing, Do you think it might be some kind of scam? ;) |
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With all the site advertisements I see on the website it makes me think that the companies advertising think we are discouraged with our experience here. |
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The key to the rest of life is never settling again. I am going to finish life strong, and not have regrets through the process. |
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