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Scholar and adventurer, torn between Bayreuth and La Scala (Tutto nel Mondo e burla ..), Sir Stephen and Duncan Fallowell, Gucci and Prada.
One of those who make their fantasies come true, sexual intensity, strict rules and codes, decorum and chaos, when barriers collapse to let intimacy be seen and our nature unveiled.
Whether I'll give you orders, look intently into your eyes, focus all my attention on your reactions, or I stand naked, exposed and vulnerable to a sudden slap in the face - it does not really matter.
What matters is to build an intimacy intense enough to open the floodgates of our emotions.
I insist on BUILD.
With time, commitment, intelligence, a willingness to take risks (first of all the risk to say "no thanks" and walk away when something does not feel right).
Half-truth, self protection, self talk protect us against emotional vulnerability. A BDSM relationship allows to be honest, direct, since, open - to EXCHANGE with our partner.
It's not exchanging services for the fulfillment of sexual fantasies, but using sexual fantasies, physical vulnerabilities, or any kind of act actually, as means to create? intimacy.
To open the flood of cathartic emotions.
Not to escape who we are and play someone else, but to be set free from the continuous flow of obligations, doubts, controls, imposed to us by modern lives.
Creating a third place where we experience fulfillment, without the filters of our protective selves.
When I am submissive it's ALSO with all my body and all my heart.
Like my old friend Duncan said, one always have to be bent in some way.
Not as a game, but as mission. Body trembling in ecstasy, proud to serve, happy to be a plaything ...
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Totally in the flow, fulfilled and fulfilling.
Meanwhile I'll be happy to engage in intelligent conversation(s) ..?
P-A.
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