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Hetero Male Dominant, 31,  Syracuse, New York
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I'm ideally looking for a long-term relationship with a submissive whom I can connect with both inside and outside of kink. I'm not opposed to something casual and fun in the meantime, though.

I'd describe myself as confident, intelligent, stubborn, witty, and generally optimistic. I pride myself on my willpower and patience, and I'm no stranger to working toward what I want. I likely won't fulfill your damaged-serial-killer kink but I instead offer stability, sanity, and safety. I have experience in relationships like this and I'll admit I can be a bit picky. I'm a very real person and that comes with the caveat that, yes, I do have emotions and weaknesses. Even if I don't openly display them often, they are there. If this is a turn off for you, feel free to move along and I wish you the best in finding the cartoon character of your dreams. I've got no illusions about myself. I'm happy with who I am while constantly being open toward ways to improve. I'm a mentally healthy guy and it took work to get there.

As far as kink goes, my interests occasionally shift. Generally speaking, I love to get rough with a girl. Choking, slapping, hair pulling, biting and so on. That said, "sadist" isn't the first word I'd think to describe myself, even if I have those tendencies. The mental aspects of domination are what turn me on the most. I love to degrade, insult and humiliate. Probably the biggest thing I look for is consensual non-consent. I don't just mean rapeplay, I mean as a general standard. In my ideal dynamic, I can come home from work, interrupt whatever you're doing, throw you on the table, use you like a fucktoy and you'll be okay with this. If I wake up before you and I want to fuck you awake, I will. Your body is my playground and your holes are my property, wherever and whenever I choose, with no permission needed. Obviously I'm aware this requires trust to be built up. I could keep talking about my turn-ons and kinks but to be honest I'd like to leave some stuff for us to chat about when the time comes. I'll just add that my interests change and grow over time and I'm generally pretty open to trying new things.

Regarding the type of girl I'm looking for, I've been different types, shapes and sizes. That said, I do have a heavy preference for short or petite girls. Alternative types are a big turn-on too. Though it's not a necessity, I do love seeing tattoos and piercings. Probably the biggest thing I love to see is enthusiasm and an eagerness to please. I understand that submission is about giving up control but please have a pulse. It's very boring to be with a girl who just lays there motionless in bed. I like to pleasure my girl and I love to see that my pleasure is just as, if not more, important to her. The same concept applies outside the bedroom as well. If you can't hold a conversation I'm going to get bored with you incredibly quickly. I'm sure all of this sounds cold but it's a pattern that I'm getting tired of. Strong relationships are built on reciprocity. Lastly, any girl that has a nerdy/geeky side and likes to laugh or have fun will have a place in my heart. I love to share hobbies with someone who is genuinely interested.

Outside of kink, I'm a big fan of horror to the point where I'm desensitized to most of it. I'm a pretty big geek in terms of my hobbies and I love video games and board games. Play board games with me and you'll get big bonus points. Other than that I love to read and I have a strong creative drive that pulls me in different directions with varying degrees of success. I like to draw, paint, and just, well, create things. It's always been a factor in my life. Oh and I'm a damn good cook too. I don't do it much for myself but if I like you I'll treat you to some good food regularly. This profile probably sounds a bit stiff, like a job application. I've always written like this and it's a hard habit to break. I'm sure I've also sounded a bit curt throughout as well. At the end of the day, I know what I want and life is too short to play coy. That said, I'm actually a pretty friendly person and I'm very easy to get along with. I tend to be the quieter type but I love to make people laugh.

Well that's my profile essay done. If you think we'd get along, feel free to message me. I'm down for making friends, relationships, or just getting each other off. Looking forward to chatting.












 Dominant Male


 New York

 5' 8"

 150 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

 Lives For:

 You wearing my collar

 Hair Pulling



 You servicing me orally

 Spanking you




 G-spot Stimulation

 Rear End Play

 Being Massaged


 Mental Bondage

 Public Play




 Breast Play

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Genital Punishment

 Placing you on a leash

 Orgasm Control

 Orgasm Denial

 Selecting the clothes you wear


 Fire Play


 Foot Worship

 Hard Limits:



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