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Pan Female Dominant, 48,  Oklahoma
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Watching, waiting. dO not contact!!!! What I am is what I am, are you what you are, or what?











 Dominant Female


 5' 3"

 180 lbs






 Lives For:

 You massaging me

 You kissing and worshiping my feet


 Renaissance Faires


 Violating your rear (Expert)

 You begging

 Blindfolding you

 You worshiping my body

 Tying you up

 Keeping you locked in tamper evident chastity at all times

 Collaring you (Expert)

 Electrical Play



 You being my domestic servant


 You at the end of my leash

 Placing you in masks

 Mental Bondage

 Treating you like an object

 Total control of your orgasms


 Sensory Play

 Dominating you with a strap-on

 Wax Play

 Card Games

 Comedy Shows

 Historical Shows

 Simulation Games


 Web Surfing





 Conservative Politics


 Cuckolding you

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Alternative Music


 Heavy Metal Music

 Nineties Music

 Rock Music



 Antique Shows

 Art Galleries


 Bird Watching (Beginner)

 Fine Dining


 Flea Markets


 Going to the Opera


 Musical Theater


 You worshiping my breasts


 Disciplining you with a cane

 Giving you corner time facing the wall

 Eye contact with me is not permitted

 G-spot Stimulation

 Disciplining your genitals (Expert)

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Erotic touch

 Fire Play


 Hair Pulling

 You doing all of the housework

 Medical fetish play

 Going to munches

 Training you to be completely
obedient to me and only me

 Sensation Play

 You servicing me with your mouth

 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Role Playing

 Spanking you

 Speech Restrictions

 You worshiping me in stockings

 Suspension Bondage



 Board Games


 Puzzle Games

 Art Collecting


 Body Art

 Cross Stitch










 Intellectual Discourse





 Female Sovereignty

 Old Guard

 Victorian Lifestyle

 Eighties Music




 Amusement Parks

 Coffee Shops

 Garage Sales





 Modern Primitivism


 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play

 Online Chatrooms

 Romance Novels

 TV News

 TV Sports



 Blue Grass

 Classical Music

 Folk Music


 Hip Hop Music

 New Age Music

 New Wave


 Opera Music


 Pop Music

 Punk Rock Music



 Seventies Music

 Show Tunes


 Curious About:



 Bar Hopping


 Gas Masks

 Masks (Wearing)

 Massage (Giving)




 Liberal Politics


 Paranormal Phenomena

 Political Activism

 Electronica / EDM


 Country Music

 Hard Limits:


 Maid / Butler Service



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Journal Entries:
5/24/2012 7:01:04 PM

::Smiles:: Life is good.

1/20/2012 2:38:05 AM

Yay, I finally deleted mail from last year. Just a word to the wise, do not wait until you have 207 pages to delete...whew. I hope everyone had an awesome holiday season and 2012 will be the best ever!!!

11/28/2011 6:04:43 AM

Very good music today. "Pussifer" I like...

11/23/2011 11:18:07 AM

To those of you that seem to only be online from 9-6, is not rocket science to know you are us both a favor, wank off on your wife. I would like the photo of it though...hahaha. In addition, don't expect Me to be accessible to you.



11/21/2011 5:37:32 PM

If you like it hard "Joe Satriani, Stevie Vai...

11/21/2011 2:17:20 PM

Perfect trust between two cannibal's = Blowjobs

10/10/2011 3:25:37 PM

Update: Actually My feet are masochistic under the right circumstances. lol. ONLY MY FEET!!

10/10/2011 1:29:58 PM

Collarme needs more choices about who we are. I am Dominant but I swear I have submissive feet, lol. They did not have that option for Me to check.

9/17/2011 6:52:31 AM

Creative people = a very nice mind masssage, yum.

9/10/2011 10:12:30 AM

Always live your life with one dream to fulfill. No matter how many of your dreams you have realised in the past, always have a dream to go When you stop dreaming, life becomes a mundane existence.  <sara henderson, b 1936>

9/2/2011 8:05:18 AM

Funny story, but so true. There was a male submissive that has continued to email Me for consideration, wait he listed himself as "slave". This morning when I awoke I saw where someone had tried to call Me twice in the middle of the night. I of course called to see what was so important at that hour. The call was from his submissive, LOL...what a worm, why can't people just tell the truth here. The forum is open and I will never understand fakes...

8/23/2011 3:48:22 PM

Hope everyone is having a spanking good day. In a perfect world others would do as they say don't you think? If you give your word that should be a code of honor. Guess that was before internet and most certainly before collarme.

8/19/2011 6:22:00 AM

What would really be cool is if the site name were changed to "Let's roleplay" Hey I can accept that....everyone has their fantasy, no one is hurt and nothing is expected. Just a thought.


Ms Jacki

8/17/2011 2:57:59 PM

I added a photo that was taken 3 days ago, if you don't like the way I look, that's fine with worries there are always 10 more in line that do.


Ms Jacki

8/10/2011 9:29:01 AM

It has occured to Me that ALL of us have a degree of submissivness in us. When I hear others emphatically say "Oh NO I AM NOT SUBMISSIVE AT ALL"!!!! I just laugh, the next time they have been speeding and there are nice blinking lights behind them and they do not pull over, let them then say "I am not at all submissive" people so make me laugh sometimes...gotta love them!!

8/9/2011 7:09:50 AM

In My meditation time this morning I asked Myself if I am  growing and thrving and being the best I am able to be in this lifestyle. My honest answer was no. Perhaps after so many years I have become content to just stay in the realms of what is "comfortable". Long ago I was mentored and trained by a very powerful and intelligent Master, yes I did have to submit to him....yes I even had to gift My own submissives to him in order to be able to totally focus on what he taught Me. I am so thankful for the years he gave to Me until his own demise. Am I through now learning, I think not. It seems I am at a crossroads here. I love and adore this lifestyle and frankly have almost totally quit living in the vanilla realm. However if I am not growing here the problem is not with anyone else, it is with Me. That was awful to admit, but I am strong enough to do so.


Ms JackiO

8/7/2011 8:48:36 PM

For the record I weigh 30 lbs more than My profile photos, they are about 3 years old. If you have a problem with a fluffy woman don't even bother to write Me. If I get tired of it I will lose it, if not then of course I won't...just saying. I am still the same Woman.

8/7/2011 3:19:00 PM

Mmmm song for the day "Serenity by Godsmack.

8/5/2011 12:33:45 PM

Living in Oklahoma the summer's are brutal. 114 here today...I was driving down the interstate and saw a sign that said "watch for ice on bridge". In My mind I so had a visual of Me getting my lawn chair out and sitting on that bridge just waiting for the ice...Sick humor.

8/5/2011 12:06:08 PM

How is it that someone could send a letter of undying servitude yet never read My profile...gamers...stay away from Me.

8/5/2011 8:21:16 AM

I do NOT use yahoo, I use AOL...I will NEVER use yahoo so don't even ask.

8/2/2011 8:25:06 AM

I don't play lose.

7/26/2011 8:18:04 AM

Perhaps it was not clear when posted that I will not be summoned by anyone to a "chat"...If I wish to chat one on one with you I will most certainly ask you...

7/26/2011 6:54:21 AM

Another question posed.


What is the most humiliating scenerio you have  eve been subjected to or thought you wanted to be subjected to? I would go further to include this question to My peers as well.

7/24/2011 1:37:35 PM

Interesting concept:  BDSM "bucket list"...what is on yours? Just a thought, those that know they are able to share with Me have permission to do so, it is good to use our creativity.

7/24/2011 1:28:04 PM

Popular response has deemed it necessary for Me to address the photo of the Person in the hat with the slut on the bed...I am wearing the hat, so yes I am the "stud" in this photo.

7/21/2011 6:13:24 PM

For the is not My job to keep up with is your job to keep up with Me.

7/21/2011 4:59:29 PM

To all who are able "" is most certainly a worthy cause.

7/21/2011 7:48:07 AM

Oh I so have time to answer questions like "what leather do You have"  LOL I did not see a place in the profile to list leather items I possess...eyeroll, go wank on a cow.

7/20/2011 4:13:20 PM

Due to the handful great people here I have met real time I have been asked to stay for awhile longer. I am not sure how long I will stay, but I am here today.


Ms Jacki

7/16/2011 9:57:01 AM

I do enjoy sluts. Don't be confused though, being a slut does not mean you are submissive...just saying.

7/16/2011 9:45:29 AM

Wicked grin...regarding the panties I stuffed inside your boi box, consider them a gift.

7/13/2011 11:11:54 PM

I realise I have listed in My profile that I like switches. This does not mean that I will allow one to order me around like they are MY Dom...not happening. So for the switch that has been TELLING Me to call him...{#}

7/13/2011 9:41:31 PM

Perfect D/s song, Tina Arena "I'm in Chains" Listen to the words...

7/13/2011 1:56:35 PM

Remember the commercial about the tootsie pop? How many licks does it take? My question is how many emails does it take to figure out someone is a fake? I believe My average is around 23, I really need to improve that. Lots of wasted time here.

7/13/2011 8:56:06 AM

All slaves/submissives should eat pussy or suck cock like it is their last meal. YUM.

7/12/2011 4:57:08 AM

Clairification on the "abyss" I was being sarcastic as always and speaking of the fact that submissives seem to disappear after speaking for a bit never to be heard from again, so do not send Me an email on "subspace" DUH.

7/11/2011 7:26:29 PM

Any other Domina's ever wonder about the abyss that slaves seem to fall into?

7/11/2011 5:25:58 PM

Yay yay premier of Anthony Bourdain in 30 to watch him live tweet. I would like to have him as the stud for my sissy's.

7/9/2011 4:55:55 PM

Hahah, here is another one someone sent me and thanks by the way. "Slave contract to be terminated after death" ROTFLOL

7/9/2011 3:31:57 PM

I just read in a profile under hard limit's "death"....well DUH. lmao.

7/9/2011 3:41:14 AM

At times I have considered why and how people become jaded and bitterness seems to be the driving force in many of their lives. After a few weeks back at collarme I am beginning to understand how that could happen. I have not pursued one slave here, they have pursued ME. Is no one real? I do not NEED a slave to be happy and content. Smiles, life is good.

7/8/2011 1:29:40 AM

How beautiful a slave's words are when this is said. "i could choose to be anything i want, i choose to be slave" When I see this kind of beauty in written expression it truly touches My heart, however if slave is a liar to begin with then karrma will indeed be it's destiny.

7/8/2011 1:03:01 AM

Do not send chat requests if we are not already aquainted r/t or I have shown some interest here. I will decline all requests that are sent without permission.

7/1/2011 1:55:58 PM

Funny how so many think that if someone clicks on their profile that the person is interested in a relationship with them...If I looked at every profile of anyone who has seen mine I would never be able to leave collarme. Get a grip people, sometimes others just enjoy reading.

6/27/2011 8:23:07 PM

I will not allow My time to be wasted with anyone's fantasies. I am real, it should be as well.

6/26/2011 2:51:25 PM

Many have asked how long I have been in this lifestyle and how I began so here it is...When I was 8 years old I made the neighbor boy lie under the swingset while I was swinging with no panties on. At one point I felt very powerful and told him to sit up, he did and sure enough I smacked him in the head on the downswing. I felt bad...kind of, because he did need stitches. Needless to say his parents would not allow him to play with me again. LOL. At 24 a boyfriend asked me to put my spiked heel in  his crotch and give him a gs, I did and again I felt that wonderful power. I continued these kinds of things for many years and later in my life found out there were actually people that thought like I did and then when the internet exploded I finally found many like me. In conclusion I would say that I have always been in the lifestyle just did not know there was one.

6/26/2011 9:39:09 AM

I can handle the truth even when I do not like it, but I cannot tolerate a lie in any form, ever.

6/26/2011 7:09:12 AM

Someone made me laugh today, I love when that term "sugarslave" hahaha, have to love that one.

6/25/2011 8:08:54 PM

Ok this one was priceless. "I want to be your slave hook me up" LOL what the heck is that????

6/25/2011 10:29:47 AM

Someone should really create a D/s BDSM game. In doing so the gamers will have an outlet and perhaps leave many who do not just "play" alone. It would be too cool if there were BDSM communities like there are nudist colonies...that would be so awesome. Even better a whole town settled by all lifestyle people. LOL guess those were my pondering moments for the day.

6/25/2011 9:51:17 AM

Attention: Do not send me a chat request. I am not going to "appear" before you, you will appear before ME if I am interested in you. Get a grip.

6/24/2011 3:38:57 PM

In My profile some of my "likes" and "tolerates" are actually "loves". Frankly by the time I got about one third of the way through this I was bored with all the questions. If I do NOT like something I will most certainly tell you.

6/23/2011 3:31:37 PM

Funny how Type "A" by day subs/slaves think that it is so unique that when they are not in their high stress daily lives they want to be "slut girls". Unbelievable how through the years the names change but the stories are always the same. In posting this I am saying, I don't need to hear about what you want if you are a cd, I already know. I do not want to hear what you like to wear I already know...that being said, do not email me with your fantasy's...I already know them.

6/22/2011 6:35:59 AM

Have spoke with some interesting people, some seem very nice, others not so nice. I am not pressured to find a slave. If I do great, if not My life is still very good.

6/21/2011 6:21:29 AM

For clarification, I do not have a Master, I am not a submissive. I do however enjoy partnering with a Dom for entertainment with male slaves. That should clear up any confusion.

6/20/2011 11:14:20 AM

Very funny, someone sent me an email stating this "written by a man" regarding my profile. I had no idea I had "man words" lol what a dork.

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