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I am a Dom without a sub. I have been a Daddy Dom and a Dom in the past and am open to either. I do not live this life 24/7 and so I am a little flexible on this, some of this morphs after a certain time with a sub. I'm married, have been for a long time and do not plan on changing that anytime soon. I have free time during the day to hop on the pc and check on things with you, time will be set aside for IM and mails. Voice conversations may be limited, and I do not like phone texts. I am a bit of a geek. Intelligent. Love a good story in any format, from movies to books to pc games. I am well read. From Shakespeare, Hardy, and Arthur Conan Doyle to Martha Grimes and contemporary books (Insurgent, Hunger Games). I jump from film noir to string theory to new recipes. (yes, I do like to cook and find it very relaxing...not so big on the clean up, heh) I consider myself a work in progress, always. In both body and mind. This journey makes me more conscious of my physical self and my mental needs. I try to be honest, unless I think it will crush someone. I'm sane and safe. Looks are important to me. There has to be some form of physical attraction for me. I understand that it is not that way for everyone, but I am who I am. I do not require someone with a runway model frame or movie star looks. It could be the mischievous twinkle in your eye, your silly smirk, or your demure look. I like spanking. Caning. This will be used always. As maintenance, as a reward, as a punishment. The difference being in the amount of aftercare given. As a babygirl you will get more across the board. As a sub it will vary depending on your nature and limits. So if you are a good girl you will get more than enough praise, hugs, cuddles, caresses ... whatever your heart desires. If you are a bad girl, well you might get a light spanking (which I hate giving) and then sent to the corner to contemplate your actions. I am not one to hold this displeasure and so after the punishment there will be opportunities to get back into my good graces. I have a major oral fetish for both giving and receiving. I love to 69 for a long time and this will be a part of all play. Light bondage, edging, orgasm control and denial. Begging (in all forms). Many, many more kinks and open to explore yours. That should be it for now. Thank you for reading. 4/22 - I struggle with the boxing myself into a specific category. I have been a Daddy and I have been a Dom, but lately I feel like exploring my inner sadist. This void needs to be filled. I do not want to emotionally harm anyone and so I will try to be as honest and up front as possible. I am looking for on going play without too many strings. I know, I know. I do not live the life 24/7 and at this point I do not think that I ever will. It is my little secret, and if you are still reading this then it may be yours also. I imagine stepping out to eat together after a session and watching you wince as you sit down at the table. Both of us knowing that those welts are burning, stinging, itching. I give you a knowing smile, pleased at what you have endured for me, and look around. What would they think if they knew what we had just been doing? You look like an angel, buy you are my little slut. Not looking to change my vanilla situation any time soon. Not looking for a girlfriend. In Genesee County would be a plus. If you are a slave or pet, I would be interested to chat with you.

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boundgloryhole
 
 Age: 38
 Berlin, Germany