WHO I AM: I am a strong and proud alpha male. My dominant personality surfaces in all aspects of my life, including work, family, friends, hobbies, and romance. I balance my professional job/vanilla public image with my equally valuable erotic/kinky side. I expect all people who share my life will be trustworthy and respectful. In return, I will share much with my partner(s): joy, laughter, pleasure, pain, fear, bravery, loyalty, truthfulness, self respect, trust, and generosity.

BDSM is a kinky tool in my arsenal, just the spice with which I flavor my cooking. It does not replace the importance of a solid connection between two unique people. I enjoy taking my partner on a journey that includes reciprocal pleasure, sensory overload, and exploring our mutual kink interests together. Some of my favorite kinky activities include: affectionate domination, anal sex, cigar play, face fucking, polyamory, rough sex, spanking, and toys.

WHO I AM SEARCHING FOR: I am seeking kinky friends here. If I met the right lady, I'd be open to develop a romantic & sexual connection that will satisfy us both. However, I am married and have secondary relationships in my life, so any new partner would need to respect those connections as well as be open-minded, safe, and discreet.

I love women of all shapes, sizes, and colors, although I have a special fondness for blondes and red-heads with curves. My ideal female enjoys interacting with a dominant male anywhere on the d/s spectrum from slave to pet to submissive.

HOW TO GET MY ATTENTION: If you feel that you and I should be friends, you may send me a message to introduce yourself. I am an old-fashioned kind of guy; tell me about yourself, what you love, and what makes you smile each day. And if you catch my interest as I wander through CollarMe, I will undoubtedly do the same.