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	Hello out there. First off, a bit about me. I am 22 years old, I live in Northwest New Jersey, I like the nerdier things in life, and I am a Dominant personality. As I stated above, I like the nerdier side of life. I like computer games, puzzles, reading, writing, and even intellectual discourse. To me, there is nothing more beautiful than intellect. That being said, I do enjoy other things as well. I am a bit of an outdoorsman when I'm in the mood, and I like to participate in acting, whether that be on stage or in Ren Faires. Quite honestly, I have a broad and eclectic range of tastes. The only things I am not too crazy about are parties and "close" public functions. I am an introvert, though I like being social, but not so much at a party or a packed club. My BDSM preferences are also listed, so you can get a feel for those as well. Though I think that a common ground should be met between two people before broaching in-depth into that realm. I have had a long-distance Master/slave relationship in the recent past, and if at all possible, I would like to reach that dynamic once more, though I'm alright with starting at Dominant/submissive and working from there. I am looking for a submissive woman from 18 to 25 who wants to submit herself to the right man, but who also wants to be in a rich and meaningful relationship that spreads into having a full life outside of BDSM. I will also be quite happy with starting as an online relationship, and I will be happy to be friends or even play partners. A couple more notes: If I send you an introduction message, please at least have the decency to say "No" if you are not interested. I try to take time and make them individual and personal, and I get aggravated when they are read and not replied to or outright deleted. I know that subs on these kinds of sites get swamped with idiotic messages from bottom-feeders who think 50 shades is the best BDSM book in the world. But you can see part of the message if you hover the cursor over the link in the inbox. That should be a bit of a clue as to intent. Also, if you are looking for a Daddy Dom, I am sorry to say that I have absolutely no interest in being one. I hope you enjoyed reading this, and I look forward to getting a message from you.

8/8/2013 10:16:43 AM

I'm starting to wonder how useful sites like these are. I've been on a few others besides this one, and thus far my experience has shown that it is practically impossible to find anyone on these sites.

For some reason (perhaps because subs don't like to introduce themselves?) submissives will not reach out to Dominants, and they in turn get swamped with 500 messages per day from fake Dominants who claim that they are the greatest thing in the world. This creates a jaded feeling in the submissive, who decides that they want someone "real". The big problem with this is that they are so determined to find that "real" person that they pass by the people who are trying to be "real".

But messages are simply ignored without even consulting the profile of the sender. And I really have to wonder: If you are going to be this choosy, how are you going to ever find someone worthwhile? I know that there are so many creeps patrolling these sites (not to mention scammers, and you can usually spot them off the bat), but would it hurt to look at a profile and make a judgement from there before tossing a message aside?

It's getting that a person looking for a "serious" relationship can't get one anymore because there is no trust in the other party and feels like they do not want to try.

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